40 days ago, I had an idea to write a lesson a day about some things I’ve learned in my 40 years, here on earth. As I have spent time in reflection, I am grateful for all my seasons because I am a better person for having LIVED! I hope you will find some wisdom in the following list.
I look forward to many more years! Here’s to 40!
- Never take your day for granted. Make it count.
- Changing your routine can bring joy.
- Hold on to your dreams and don’t let anyone tell you what you can or cannot do.
- Having faith and keeping the faith are two different things. One requires intentional work.
- Valuing myself and what I have to offer is a part of embracing who God wants me to be.
- I matter.
- Sometimes activity can make us feel like we’re making a difference. This isn’t always the case. Synergy is where it’s at.
- There is nothing wrong with regrouping and starting over.
- Expect the unexpected with God. He delivers!
- Don’t be afraid to believe. It’s never a waste of time to do so.
- Be careful not to be in motion but going nowhere. (Double negative intended.)
- Once you find your people, thank God. They will have your back and hold you up.
- Sometimes it takes effort to breathe but you still gotta do it. It’s about survival.
- Don’t let your insecurities keep you from sharing who you are with the world! You are a gift!
- Try to enjoy the good times as much as possible and make good memories.
- If there is hope, there is possibility.
- I can’t be anyone else; I can only be me.
- Be gracious especially to yourself.
- Love hard but if/when you realize the relationship is harmful to you, it’s ok to let go.
- Don’t focus on your haters.
- Support others but don’t forget to invest in your own self.
- I am worth it.
- Go beyond what people say and look at what they do; their actions or non-actions will display their hearts.
- When you’ve given friendships all you have and it still fails, walk away knowing that you gave it your all.
- Writing is just talking on paper. “Talking” is therapeutic.
- Stop saving your China for a special occasion. Use them just because.
- Greatness isn’t something that happens overnight it’s established through a lifetime of living.
- Just because you aren’t racing doesn’t mean others aren’t competing with you.
- Don’t let fear keep you from adventure. You will miss out on life.
- Let God write your story.
- I may not know everything but that doesn’t mean I should ignore checks in my spirit.
- Even if I feel lonely, I’m never alone.
- Imitation isn’t always flattering. Be unique!
- God is a God of righteousness and justice. You can’t take one without the other.
- When you “don’t see color,” you don’t see me.
- Forgiving may be difficult but forgetting can be even harder.
- Life is beautiful whether I believe/feel it or not.
- It doesn’t matter how much time has elapsed, true friends can pick up where they left off.
- Surround yourself with people who want to see you winning, succeeding, and happy in life.
- Sometimes, you just have to wait and see what happens. Photo Credit: Casha Mosley
