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How do you recognise when it\u2019s time to press pause because your whole being is asking for no more music?<\/p>\n

We\u2019re often told there\u2019s always a song that helps.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But how do you learn to notice the often small and subtle signs when music is no longer what you need, at least for a little while?<\/p>\n

One of the first signs that can show up is that your love for music is still the same, but the feeling you get isn\u2019t.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

By that I don\u2019t mean listening to a song that you never truly enjoyed, more the opposite. Songs that once meant something to you just don\u2019t hit that spot anymore. You can\u2019t feel what you used to when listening to them. Oftentimes, no music you put on makes you feel anything. Numbness takes over.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s confusing because you know these songs used to move you. Nothing about the music has changed, yet your experience of it has.<\/p>\n

Skipping a song, or even several songs, can be another indication that something might have changed. At times you might skip your whole playlist, whilst shaking your head in frustration because you want to listen but simply can\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s when irritation can set in \u2013 big time! Nothing is worse than when the music or sound you love can\u2019t do what it usually does: give you certain emotions such as comfort, happiness or energy. No wonder you push that keyboard away, close Spotify, perhaps even walk away from your desk or phone because it makes no sense what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n

One of the biggest ways to spot that your relationship with music has changed is when any music feels too intense, overwhelming or simply too much. Rather than seeing this as something to fight against, perhaps it\u2019s your body trying to tell you something. It may be your body\u2019s way of saying, \u201cStop. I need a break,\u201d and asking for something else, most likely silence.<\/p>\n

Silence. How sweet it can be. You might find yourself drawn to it in a way you never have before, to the point where a completely quiet house feels perfect. No TV, phone or outside noise\u2026 ah, beautiful!<\/p>\n

If that\u2019s how you experience quietness or silence, then this could be another sign that your nervous system wants a break from music.<\/p>\n

Perhaps the beauty in experiencing this is not that there is something wrong with you, but that your needs have changed, most likely only temporarily. Music and your favourite songs cannot provide you with what you need right now.<\/p>\n

Realising and accepting this can be challenging at the beginning, but noticing these small shifts allows<\/strong> you to listen differently instead of judging yourself.<\/p>\n

Your relationship with music isn\u2019t broken.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Like any relationship, it moves through different seasons of life. Learning to notice those changes is one of the kindest things you can do for yourself. Sometimes what you need isn\u2019t another song.<\/p>\n

Sometimes what you need is simply permission to sit in the quiet for a little while.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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