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My girlfriend recently told me that when she gets dressed in the morning, she asks herself: What can I put on that\u2019s so comfortable I forget I\u2019m wearing it?<\/em><\/p>\n I\u2019ve been thinking about this for weeks. Here\u2019s what I think she\u2019s really asking: What can I wear that will let me be<\/em> instead of perform<\/em>? What will let me move through my day without the constant adjustment\u2014pulling down a hem, unsticking a tag, feeling that slight wrongness of a waistband that seemed fine but reveals itself as torture by 2 pm?<\/p>\n This is the entire point of getting dressed. Not to look good (though that\u2019s nice). But to forget. To put something on and then leave your body alone for a while<\/em>.<\/p>\n I\u2019m in a phase where I want everything in my closet to pass this test. So here\u2019s what\u2019s been working\u2014the fall wardrobe essentials I\u2019ve been wearing on repeat, with some instructions on how to think about them and what they\u2019re really doing in your wardrobe.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorites: S\u00e9zane Emile Cardigan<\/a>, S\u00e9zane Gaspard Cardigan<\/a>, Baba\u00e0<\/a> The two S\u00e9zane styles I keep coming back to have that perfect French ratio of structure-to-slouch. Fitted enough that you don\u2019t look like you\u2019re drowning, loose enough that you can eat a full meal without regret. I\u2019ve worked with S\u00e9zane<\/a> over the years, and their cardigans just know. They understand that women need clothes that can go from desk to drinks without requiring a costume change.<\/p>\n Baba\u00e0 makes pieces in local, natural wool that feel like a hug from someone who actually likes you. The kind you\u2019ll wear for a decade (if you can protect it from moths!).<\/p>\n Instruction: Buy one really good cardigan. Then wear it three days in a row and see if anyone notices. (They won\u2019t.)<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorites: Aritzia<\/a>, <\/strong><\/strong>Frame<\/strong><\/a>, <\/strong>Kule<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Can we talk about how much emotional energy we put into finding the perfect t-shirt? I\u2019ve spent literal hours searching for one that fits right, feels right, makes me look like I didn\u2019t try but also didn\u2019t give up.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve been living in oversized tees. The kind of style where you can tuck just the front into jeans, and suddenly you look like you understand proportions. My Aritzia<\/a> and Frame tees<\/a> are perfect for getting the baby tee look that doesn\u2019t look like you\u2019ve shopped the Juniors department. And Kule\u2019s The Modern striped tees<\/a> make me feel like I have a house in the Hamptons (I don\u2019t).<\/p>\n There are also great options at Target and Walmart, but you need to keep an eye out for them and try them on if you have the chance in-store. And if you find one you like, buy a couple because they don\u2019t continue to make the same styles indefinitely.<\/p>\n Instruction: Buy three of the same t-shirt in different colors. Congratulations, you now have a uniform, which means you\u2019ve freed up mental space for more important things.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorites: <\/strong>Reformation<\/strong><\/a>, <\/strong>Mille<\/strong><\/a>, <\/strong>H&M<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Here\u2019s my controversial take, and it directly contradicts everything I just said about forgetting what you\u2019re wearing: The perfect jeans are worth a little discomfort.<\/p>\n I know, I know. This goes against the entire thesis of this piece. But hear me out\u2014some things matter more than ease. A great silhouette is one of them. I will tolerate a slightly snug waistband, a bit of restriction when I sit down, that feeling of awareness<\/em> that I\u2019m wearing denim, if it means my jeans actually look good.<\/p>\n This is where I draw the line between comfort and compromise. My Reformation Mid-Rise Straight Jeans<\/a> make my legs look like they go on for days. Even my H&M Harper High-Rise Wide Leg Jeans<\/a>\u2014the ones I\u2019ve worn into submission\u2014still have that shape that makes me feel like I know what I\u2019m doing.<\/p>\n There\u2019s a difference between \u201cI forgot I\u2019m wearing this\u201d comfort and \u201cthis is actively hurting me\u201d discomfort. I\u2019m not advocating for pain. I\u2019m just saying: Sometimes you feel your jeans. And if they look that good, that\u2019s the trade-off.<\/p>\n Instruction: Find jeans that make you look incredible, even if you\u2019re aware you\u2019re wearing them. Not everything has to disappear. Some things should announce themselves\u2014quietly, but confidently.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorite: <\/strong>S\u00e9zane<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n September\u2019s \u201cjust browsing\u201d purchase that turned into October\u2019s \u201chow did I live without this\u201d essential. I\u2019ve worn it 47 times in six weeks.<\/p>\n S\u00e9zane\u2019s Yohan Jumper<\/a> works under cardigans, over long sleeves, with silk skirts, and with ratty jeans, tucked into everything. The mock neck makes you sit up straighter and feel more pulled-together, even if you\u2019re having an existential crisis.<\/p>\n Instruction: Buy one. Wear it seven different ways in one week. This is called being French.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorite: <\/strong>Madewell<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n When I packed for a trip to Steamboat<\/a> last month, I threw in this belt<\/a> at the last minute, and it became the piece that elevated every outfit.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s what I\u2019m realizing: Belts are the difference between wearing clothes and wearing an outfit<\/em>. They\u2019re punctuation marks. A good belt adds just enough Western to a basic t-shirt and jeans. It says, Yes, I thought about this, but not too hard.<\/em><\/p>\n Instruction: You need one really good leather belt. Stop thinking of belts as optional.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorite: <\/strong>Ruti<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Everyone is raving about The On the Loose Work Pants from Ruti<\/a> right now, and I hate to admit when the internet is right, but the internet is right.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s the thing about The Slacks\u2014and yes, they get a capital T and S because they\u2019ve earned that level of respect\u2014they occupy this perfect space between \u201cI\u2019m trying\u201d and \u201cI\u2019ve given up.\u201d They\u2019re tailored enough that you look like an adult with a retirement account. They\u2019re relaxed enough that you could absolutely take an unplanned nap in them if the situation called for it.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve been reaching for my Ruti black pants on days when jeans feel too casual, but I refuse to wear anything that requires dry cleaning or conscious thought. They work with the sleeveless mock turtleneck<\/a>. With a half-tucked oversized tee. With mules when I want to feel like I have my life together, or with sneakers when I want to feel like I\u2019m fooling everyone into thinking<\/em> I have my life together.<\/p>\n The genius of The Slacks are that they look intentional without being precious. They photograph well, which matters more than we want to admit. And they come in black, which means they go with everything and hide the fact that you\u2019ve worn them four times this week.<\/p>\n Instruction: Buy The Slacks everyone\u2019s talking about. Wear them on repeat. Realize that sometimes the hype is justified and the algorithm actually knows what you need.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorites: American Vintage<\/a>, Boden<\/a>, Baba\u00e0<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n I have a sweater collection that could clothe a small village. But the ones I actually wear are the American Vintage East crewnecks<\/a> that manage to be both substantial and light, the Boden Lucy V-neck<\/a> that\u2019s 100% cotton and wears just slightly oversized, and the Baba\u00e0<\/a> pieces I\u2019ll probably give to my children.<\/p>\n These aren\u2019t the sweaters you save for special occasions. They\u2019re the ones you live in and watch get better with age.<\/p>\n Instruction: Buy fewer sweaters, but better ones. Quality is just cost-per-wear spread over a decade.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorites: <\/strong>New Balance<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n I live in the chunky New Balance 9060 sneakers<\/a>. I have them in gray and tan, and I genuinely can\u2019t remember which pair I wore yesterday. They work with yoga pants, jeans, and dresses, and are what my body automatically reaches for every morning.<\/p>\n Chunky sneakers gave us permission to stop pretending comfort and style are mutually exclusive. They\u2019re the footwear equivalent of admitting that sometimes practicality is the most stylish choice.<\/p>\n Instruction: Buy sneakers you can walk in for hours. Stop apologizing for prioritizing your feet.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorites: <\/strong>Margaux Clara Mules<\/strong><\/a>, <\/strong>G.H. Bass Loafers<\/strong><\/a>, <\/strong>Everlane Flats<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Mules are the shoes I reach for when I want to feel like I have my life together. They slip on in two seconds. They make lazy outfits look considered. They\u2019re the adult version of slippers. I have a pair from Margaux<\/a> that are so beautiful, I briefly considered not wearing them outside.<\/p>\n Instruction: Invest in one pair of mules that make you happy every time you look down. Accept that you\u2019re now a mule person.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorites: <\/strong>Vintage Louis Vuitton<\/strong><\/a>, Rag & Bone<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n The bags getting the most love right now are my vintage Louis Vuitton bucket bag<\/a> and this Rag & Bone bag<\/a> that\u2019s become my practical favorite.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s the uncomfortable truth: Sometimes the best bag isn\u2019t the prettiest. It\u2019s just the one that makes your life easier. The Rag & Bone is the perfect size\u2014I don\u2019t lose my keys in its depths. This is the kind of boring criteria that actually matters when you\u2019re living in a bag every day.<\/p>\n Instruction: Find a bag that makes your life easier. Functional is better than pretty. A bag that does both is the dream.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorites: <\/strong>Bembien<\/strong><\/a>, Vintage find from Japan<\/strong><\/p>\n Scarves have been having a moment for approximately 2,000 years. The French never stopped wearing them. They\u2019ve always known: The fastest way to make boring look interesting is to tie something around your neck.<\/p>\n I keep a simple Bembien scarf<\/a> in my bag for emergencies (when I\u2019m wearing all black and feel like a void). And my brightly colored vintage scarf from Japan for when I need a mood boost.<\/p>\n Instruction: Buy two scarves\u2014one neutral, one not. Learn exactly one way to tie them. The slight imperfection is the point.<\/strong><\/p>\n Favorites: <\/strong>S\u00e9zane<\/strong><\/a>, <\/strong>Maria Stanley<\/strong><\/a>, <\/strong>Barbour<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n The coat is where you either look like you know what you\u2019re doing or like you grabbed the first thing by the door. There\u2019s no in-between.<\/p>\n The S\u00e9zane Will Jacket<\/a> makes me feel Parisian without trying. The Maria Stanley Milo Jacket<\/a> is effortless in a way that probably took someone years to figure out. And the Barbour Beaufort\u00ae Waxed Jacket<\/a> is practical and slightly masculine\u2014the one I actually wear when the weather turns and I need something that works, not something that poses.<\/p>\n You need at least two fall coats. One that makes you feel like the best version of yourself. And one you don\u2019t think about at all.<\/p>\n Instruction: Invest in one coat that makes you feel like you\u2019ve figured something out. Buy another you can forget about. Alternate based on whether you\u2019re trying to impress yourself or just stay warm.<\/strong><\/p>\n This fall, my wardrobe has become a tool for forgetting. Not in a bad way\u2014but in the way my girlfriend meant: Putting something on and then letting it disappear.<\/p>\n The goal isn\u2019t to have the most interesting wardrobe or the most current pieces. The goal is to get dressed and then move on with your day.<\/p>\n Editor\u2019s Note:\u00a0This article contains affiliate links. Wit & Delight uses affiliate links as a source of revenue to fund business operations and to be less dependent on branded content. Wit & Delight stands behind all product recommendations. Still have questions about these links or our process? Feel free to\u00a0email<\/a> us. <\/em><\/p>\n Kate is the founder of Wit & Delight. She is currently learning how to play tennis and is forever testing the boundaries of her creative muscle. Follow her on Instagram at @witanddelight_<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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<\/em><\/strong><\/a>The cardigan is the most underrated piece in modern life. It\u2019s a jacket that doesn\u2019t try too hard. Too hot? Take it off. Too cold? Button it up.<\/p>\n2. The T-Shirt<\/strong><\/h2>\n
3. The Jeans<\/strong><\/h2>\n
4. The Sleeveless Mock Turtleneck<\/strong><\/h2>\n
5. The Belt<\/strong><\/h2>\n
6. The Black Slacks<\/strong><\/h2>\n
7. The Sweater<\/strong><\/h2>\n
8. The Sneakers<\/strong><\/h2>\n
9. The Flats<\/strong><\/h2>\n
10. The Leather Bag<\/strong><\/h2>\n
11. The Scarf<\/strong><\/h2>\n
12. The Coat<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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