{"id":7073125,"date":"2026-10-02T16:53:48","date_gmt":"2026-10-02T16:53:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7073125"},"modified":"2026-10-02T16:53:48","modified_gmt":"2026-10-02T16:53:48","slug":"how-we-coped-when-menopause-and-puberty-clashed-in-the-family-mums-share-their-stories","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7073125","title":{"rendered":"How we coped when menopause and puberty clashed in the family &#8211; mums share their stories"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"article-body\">\n<p id=\"elk-a5ea27e3-2283-4163-9302-8a46c89705ba\"><a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.goodto.com\/family\/children\/puberty-what-to-expect\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.goodto.com\/family\/children\/puberty-what-to-expect\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.goodto.com\/family\/children\/puberty-what-to-expect\"><strong>Puberty<\/strong><\/a><strong> and <\/strong><a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.goodto.com\/wellbeing\/menopause-symptoms-62085\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.goodto.com\/wellbeing\/menopause-symptoms-62085\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.goodto.com\/wellbeing\/menopause-symptoms-62085\"><strong>menopause<\/strong><\/a><strong> are two huge health milestones, where our bodies go through some of the most challenging and significant changes. These transitions mark the beginning and the end of our reproductive cycles and for most people can be something of a hormonal roller coaster. To add in a bit of extra stress, in many households, teenagers and their mums will be going through these changes at the same time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Women usually start the shift to <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.goodto.com\/wellbeing\/early-menopause-causes-signs-symptoms-treatment-442509\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.goodto.com\/wellbeing\/early-menopause-causes-signs-symptoms-treatment-442509\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/www.goodto.com\/wellbeing\/early-menopause-causes-signs-symptoms-treatment-442509\">perimenopause<\/a> during their mid-to late 40s and then reach menopause a few years later. The <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/early-or-delayed-puberty\/\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/early-or-delayed-puberty\/\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\"><u>NHS says<\/u><\/a> the average age for puberty to start in girls is 11 and age 12 for boys. If you had your children in your 30s, as <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ons.gov.uk\/peoplepopulationandcommunity\/birthsdeathsandmarriages\/livebirths\/bulletins\/birthcharacteristicsinenglandandwales\/2021\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.ons.gov.uk\/peoplepopulationandcommunity\/birthsdeathsandmarriages\/livebirths\/bulletins\/birthcharacteristicsinenglandandwales\/2021\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\"><u>many women in the UK <\/u><\/a>do, this means a decade or so later, hormones could be raging among a large proportion of your household.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"elk-seasonal\"\/><\/p>\n<aside data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-block-type=\"embed\" data-render-type=\"fte\" data-skip=\"dealsy\" data-widget-type=\"seasonal\" class=\"ecom-root\"\/>\n<p id=\"elk-a5ea27e3-2283-4163-9302-8a46c89705ba-2\">Mood swings, anxiety and low self-esteem, plus the bodily changes associated with both puberty and menopause, mean that while both the child and parent are going through similar issues, they might struggle to support each other. We spoke to some mums to find out their tips for coping with this complex time in their lives.<\/p>\n<div class=\"my-6 w-full overflow-hidden rounded-[10px] lg:my-8\" data-component-name=\"JwPlayer:Carousel\" data-jwp-carousel=\"\" data-jwp-carousel-payload=\"{&quot;ids&quot;:{&quot;playerID&quot;:&quot;vG049pDO&quot;,&quot;searchPlaylistID&quot;:&quot;0PB0GGqj&quot;,&quot;divID&quot;:&quot;botr_0PB0GGqj_vG049pDO_div&quot;,&quot;fallbackPlaylistID&quot;:&quot;0PB0GGqj&quot;,&quot;fallbackDivID&quot;:&quot;botr_0PB0GGqj_vG049pDO_div&quot;,&quot;key&quot;:&quot;7tcPXfb2YF1zQjTdgWv1PyfmCDr7CQr3VWqdlpHJcnldH210&quot;,&quot;tintLogo&quot;:true,&quot;useSearchPlaylist&quot;:false,&quot;enabled&quot;:true},&quot;signPostingEnabled&quot;:true,&quot;signPostingLinkEnabled&quot;:true,&quot;waitForAdLoad&quot;:false,&quot;hidePlayerOnDesktop&quot;:false,&quot;hidePlayerOnMobile&quot;:false,&quot;hidePlayerOnTablet&quot;:false}\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-nowrap items-center justify-between gap-3 bg-zinc-900 px-[14px] py-3\" data-jwp-carousel-header=\"\">\n<p><span class=\"inline-flex items-center gap-1.5 text-sm font-article-heading capitalize leading-5 text-white whitespace-nowrap\"><span class=\"jwp-carousel-title-mobile\"\/><span class=\"jwp-carousel-title-desktop\">Latest Videos From<\/span><span class=\"jwp-carousel-brand\">GoodtoKnow<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><a id=\"elk-b43cd30b-be6a-4cfc-abbc-a8390a2301c6\"\/><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"coping-when-menopause-and-puberty-clash-3\">Coping when menopause and puberty clash<\/h2>\n<p><a id=\"elk-1-communicate\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-1-communicate\"><span>1. Communicate<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"elk-22c2d4ec-26ad-4e75-944f-03022bdec622\">Puberty is a time when teenagers can be notoriously reluctant to communicate. If you combine this with peri-menopausal and menopausal symptoms like mood swings and anxiety then it can cause resentment and anger to build, on both sides. As with all challenging times as a parent, sitting down to have a rational and honest conversation will help avoid conflict.<\/p>\n<p>Mum <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/internationalelfservice.com\/about-international-elf-service\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/internationalelfservice.com\/about-international-elf-service\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\">Emily Beckloff<\/a> says: \u201cMy daughter started her periods just after mine stopped, which, quite irrationally, made me feel very old and sad.\u201d Beckloff\u2019s experience is really common, but speaking to your child about these feelings will hopefully help them understand what you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n<p>Menopause specialist <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.newsonhealth.co.uk\/\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.newsonhealth.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\"><u>Dr Louise Newson <\/u><\/a>says there are ways to avoid tense times at home: \u201cOpen communication is crucial here. By discussing what you&#8217;re both going through, you can foster mutual understanding and patience. Explain that while hormones might be causing emotional ups and downs for both of you, it\u2019s important to remain respectful and supportive.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Beckloff says this is something she did: \u201cOur teens are unusually lovely, and I\u2019ve always made keeping communication open a priority, which I think helps all of us. For me I\u2019ve really welcomed the opportunity to talk with our teens about how to deal with annoying situations or behaviour in a kind and empathetic way.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"slice-container-newsletterForm-articleInbodyContent-TfNLZJSB7antbE63sSKNDe\" class=\"slice-container newsletter-inbodyContent-slice newsletterForm-articleInbodyContent-TfNLZJSB7antbE63sSKNDe slice-container-newsletterForm\">\n<div data-hydrate=\"true\" class=\"newsletter-form__wrapper newsletter-form__wrapper--inbodyContent\">\n<div class=\"newsletter-form__container\">\n<section class=\"newsletter-form__top-bar\"\/>\n<section class=\"newsletter-form__main-section\">\n<p class=\"newsletter-form__strapline\">Parenting advice, hot topics, best buys and family finance tips delivered straight to your inbox.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><a id=\"elk-2-laugh-about-it\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-2-laugh-about-it\"><span>2. Laugh about it<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"elk-fcc79e6e-3277-4897-a6f7-e7a0ee6c82b4\">We know pubescent teenagers can be quite sensitive, especially when it comes to things like spots, hair growth or otherwise, but keeping things light will help everyone.<\/p>\n<p>Beckloff says keeping a sense of humour really helped her and her family: \u201cThey&#8217;ve been really understanding and patient, even though they get frustrated listening to me repeat myself. In between moments of exasperation, we\u2019ve had some good laughs about my hot flashes, ridiculous choice of words (because I can\u2019t remember the word I\u2019m looking for), and my obsession with having a portable fan in every corner of the house!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"elk-3-share-how-you-re-feeling\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-3-share-how-you-re-feeling\"><span>3. Share how you\u2019re feeling <\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"elk-a3240fa7-6377-45fc-be1a-4755754c5c98\">As we said above, you and your child will probably be experiencing similar symptoms so why not talk to each other about it? Dr Newson says: \u201cAcknowledging that you\u2019re both in challenging phases of life can bring you closer together. Also talking together about ways of seeking help and treatment may be useful.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mum of three, Lucy Baker, who blogs as <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/geriatricmum.co.uk\/\" data-url=\"https:\/\/geriatricmum.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\"><u>Geriatric Mum,<\/u><\/a> says, while getting to grips with her symptoms has been tough, it has also been nice to go through it with her teenage daughter. \u201cI can read the signs in her so clearly so I know what she needs and when. I feel more in tune with her than I ever have, which is actually quite beautiful. I am not sure she would describe it as that, but I feel like our moods match and so we know how to look after each other,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Newson says it\u2019s important teenagers know about menopause, especially as it was something of a taboo subject for many women growing up in the 1970s and 80s. \u201cWe now openly talk about menopause and hormones which really helps and have conversations with each other and more importantly with their friends and other people. My older two daughters, who are 21 and 20, are constantly talking to their friends\u2019 mothers about the important role of hormones and often educating them about how safe and effective HRT is,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"elk-4-accept-it-s-not-going-to-be-easy\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-4-accept-it-s-not-going-to-be-easy\"><span>4. Accept it\u2019s not going to be easy<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"elk-53136352-1be6-40b5-814f-d4edb47e11d2\">Many of us are used to trying to put a brave face on things when life is so busy. But it\u2019s important to accept that this is going to be a tough stage of your life. Baker says it took her some time to work out what was happening to her body and it affected her relationship with her kids.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have, at times, lost my sense of humour and my usually relaxed, carefree attitude to life and this comes at a cost,\u201d she says. \u201cI have stormed out of the house, driven to a local place and sat in the car and cried in the past, and my daughter brings that up occasionally. I clearly remember once being in the car and having a tete-a-tete with my eldest and telling her to get out of the and driving off! I look back with a sense of humour now at how quickly I lost my temper (it was done safely btw) but at the time, I was full of anger and I actually couldn\u2019t cope. I was taking everything personally and feeling like her typical teen behaviour was too much to bear.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Parenting expert <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.kirstyketley.com\/\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.kirstyketley.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\"><u>Kirsty Ketley<\/u><\/a> says telling your kids what you\u2019re struggling with really helps. \u201cWhen I\u2019ve had a menopausal moment, I own it and my kids understand that they need to take on some of the remembering responsibilities, that they can\u2019t always rely on me! This has really not helped them become much more responsible, but taken the pressure off me, too and it is definitely something that I recommend to other mums, who struggle with the yukky brain fog and memory loss,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>Share your feelings and struggles with your partner and friends. There will be times when it will feel overwhelming so having a good support network around you is important.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"elk-5-look-after-yourself\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-5-look-after-yourself\"><span>5. Look after yourself <\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"elk-4b5ea174-5abf-4762-b245-433c1a87df35\">This follows on from the point above. It is not going to be an easy time so it\u2019s important you look after yourself mentally and physcially &#8211; and to have some space from your teenager. This could mean carving out time every week to exercise or do something just for you, or going out with your partner or friends. Speak to your GP about the treatment options open to you so you can manage your symptoms, and tell your work if you need time off or to make changes to the way you work.<\/p>\n<p>Mum of two and menopause trainer and therapist <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/louisahussey.com\/\" data-url=\"https:\/\/louisahussey.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\"><u>Louisa Hussey<\/u><\/a> went through early menopause at age 37. She has a 13-year-old stepson and seven-year-old daughter, who was born via an egg donor. She says: \u201cWe as working mums are knackered from trying to do everything, and society dictates we must. However, I reject all of that &#8211; take something off your plate, cross off half of your to-do list and take time away from everyone regularly!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ketley agrees that time away from your family can be really beneficial: \u201cThis really helps when your tween or teen is hormonal. It helps you have more empathy for them, while reducing those hormonal clashes with each other. I think it\u2019s good to make your tween\/teen aware if you\u2019re having a particularly bad day, as most will have some level of understanding, as they are going through similar.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"elk-6-embrace-the-changes\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-6-embrace-the-changes\"><span>6. Embrace the changes<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"elk-90e882cf-eac8-42b1-aee6-cc6cd51cb886\">Menopause is no walk in the park but seeing the positive side to finishing your periods and moving into the next phase of life is something a lot of the mums we spoke to believed was important. Baker says: \u201cThe main thing I want to share here is it has helped me to understand myself and work on my understanding of life and being a woman and a mother. I love to talk and share and I work hard on making sure my children, and the people around me know it is ok to talk \u2013 no matter how bad or ridiculous you think something is. This process has made me a better, more grounded person and a better talker.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hussey says one of the positives for her \u201cis that it&#8217;s forced me to choose an easy life. I don&#8217;t argue over homework at all. If they put up a fight, then that&#8217;s that. I am not prepared to argue or battle anything that will exhaust me. So I guess I&#8217;m a pretty chilled parent now!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Speak to your GP if you\u2019re worried about any of your symptoms or want to discuss treatment options. You can also seek advice through <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themenopausecharity.org\/\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.themenopausecharity.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\"><u>The Menopause Charity<\/u><\/a> or <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.menopausematters.co.uk\/\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.menopausematters.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"inline-link\"><u>Menopause Matters<\/u><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a id=\"elk-we-spoke-to-the-following-experts\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"article-body__section\" id=\"section-we-spoke-to-the-following-experts\"><span>We spoke to the following experts<\/span><\/h3>\n<div class=\"slice-container person-wrapper slice-container-person\" data-component-name=\"Slice:Person\" id=\"elk-b80288af-f5c1-4827-be52-93678b7de7c6\">\n<div class=\"person person--separator\">\n<div class=\"person__avatar-block\">\n<picture data-new-v2-image=\"true\"><source type=\"image\/webp\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/R7NyaZL2CJ3oMQeiN8NN2F-140-80.png.webp 140w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 700px) 140px, 100px\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Louise Newton\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/R7NyaZL2CJ3oMQeiN8NN2F-140-80.png 140w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 700px) 140px, 100px\" loading=\"lazy\" data-new-v2-image=\"true\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/R7NyaZL2CJ3oMQeiN8NN2F.png\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/R7NyaZL2CJ3oMQeiN8NN2F.png\" class=\"rounded-[var(--image--border-radius,0)] person__avatar\" data-pin-nopin=\"true\" data-normal=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/R7NyaZL2CJ3oMQeiN8NN2F.png\"\/>\n<\/picture>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"person__heading\">\n<div class=\"person__name-socials\">\n<span class=\"block person__name\">Dr Louise Newson<\/span><\/p>\n<nav class=\"button-social-group person__social-buttons\" aria-labelledby=\"button-social-group- person__social-buttons\">\n<p>\nSocial Links Navigation\n<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"button-social\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drlouisenewson.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"WEBSITE\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.drlouisenewson.co.uk\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\"><br \/>\n<span class=\"button-social__icon button-social__icon-website\"><br \/>\n<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"icon-website\" viewbox=\"0 0 1000 1000\"><path d=\"M1000 500A501 501 0 0 0 503 0h-6A501 501 0 0 0 0 500c0 275 223 499 498 500h4a501 501 0 0 0 498-500zM529 936V765h133c-31 90-79 154-133 171zM337 765h134v171c-54-17-101-81-134-171zM61 539h176a899 899 0 0 0 22 167H110a439 439 0 0 1-49-166zM471 64v191H331c31-101 82-173 140-191zm199 191H529V64c58 18 109 90 140 191zm270 226H763c-1-59-7-115-18-167h155a438 438 0 0 1 40 167zm-235 0H529V314h156a857 857 0 0 1 19 167zM471 314v167H296a859 859 0 0 1 19-167h156zM237 481H60a438 438 0 0 1 41-167h154a921 921 0 0 0-18 167zm59 58h175v167H320a837 837 0 0 1-24-166zm233 167V539h175a831 831 0 0 1-24 167H529zm234-166h176a436 436 0 0 1-49 166H741a893 893 0 0 0 22-166zm104-285H731c-20-68-47-126-81-169a443 443 0 0 1 217 169zM350 86c-33 43-61 101-81 169H133A443 443 0 0 1 350 86zM148 765h127c20 59 45 110 75 150a442 442 0 0 1-202-150zm502 150c30-39 56-91 75-150h127a442 442 0 0 1-202 150z\"\/><\/svg><br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<\/a><br \/>\n<\/nav>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"person__role\">Menopause specialist <\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"person__bio\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.drlouisenewson.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.drlouisenewson.co.uk\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\">Louise Newson<\/a> is a physician, menopause specialist and member of the UK Government\u2019s Menopause Taskforce. She is also an award-winning doctor, educator, and author, committed to increasing awareness and knowledge of perimenopause and menopause. Described as the \u201cmedic who kickstarted the menopause revolution\u201d, she has empowered a generation of women to have a greater understanding, choice and control over their treatment, bodies and mind.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"slice-container person-wrapper slice-container-person\" data-component-name=\"Slice:Person\" id=\"elk-2938cc18-afd8-45e1-a059-251519f69f7f\">\n<div class=\"person person--separator\">\n<div class=\"person__avatar-block\">\n<picture data-new-v2-image=\"true\"><source type=\"image\/webp\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/PiPiuKUZKSqQnopYhz3ieW-140-80.png.webp 140w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 700px) 140px, 100px\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Kirsty Ketley\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/PiPiuKUZKSqQnopYhz3ieW-140-80.png 140w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 700px) 140px, 100px\" loading=\"lazy\" data-new-v2-image=\"true\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/PiPiuKUZKSqQnopYhz3ieW.png\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/PiPiuKUZKSqQnopYhz3ieW.png\" class=\"rounded-[var(--image--border-radius,0)] person__avatar\" data-pin-nopin=\"true\" data-normal=\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/PiPiuKUZKSqQnopYhz3ieW.png\"\/>\n<\/picture>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"person__heading\">\n<p>\n<span class=\"block person__name\">Kirsty\u00a0Ketley<\/span>\n<\/p>\n<aside class=\"person__role\">Parenting specialist <\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"person__bio\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kirstyketley.com\/\" data-url=\"https:\/\/www.kirstyketley.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-hl-processed=\"none\" data-article-category=\"wellbeing\">Kirsty Ketley <\/a>is a qualified Early Years and parenting specialist with a wealth of knowledge and experience from over 25 years of working with children from birth to the teenage years. 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