{"id":7070509,"date":"2026-09-30T23:11:17","date_gmt":"2026-09-30T23:11:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7070509"},"modified":"2026-09-30T23:11:17","modified_gmt":"2026-09-30T23:11:17","slug":"get-into-a-back-to-school-mindset-with-advice-from-12-youth-soccer-coaches","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7070509","title":{"rendered":"Get Into a Back-to-School Mindset With Advice From 12 Youth Soccer Coaches"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div data-adroot=\"true\">\n<p>Late summer is always the hardest on parents. The pool days are numbered. The long evenings are shortening. The school year is coming, and it doesn\u2019t care how ready you are.<\/p>\n<p>The back-to-school transition is never the clean handoff the calendar makes it look like. Every August, we tell ourselves this year will be different. You\u2019ll get ahead of it. Lunch prep sorted by Sunday. Bedtime routine locked in a week early. Screen-time rules clearly communicated and actually enforced. You\u2019ll draw up this plan with the kind of granular, paranoid attention to detail that Guardiola brings to a cup final. But then, it\u2019s all a disaster by Tuesday. <\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re looking for an actual strategy that holds up, go to the park on a Saturday morning, find the sideline, and start listening to whoever is coaching.<\/p>\n<p>These are people managing every extreme of human emotion \u2014 low blood sugar, wounded pride, full-on existential crises \u2014 all while trying to stop a five-way argument over who gets the neon green goalie pinnies. If they don\u2019t know something useful, nobody does. So we hit up a dozen youth soccer coaches for their best back-to-school advice.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>1. Do The Thing You Hate<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s1076284893\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/fed0073c\/a-father-son-wearing.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/fed0073c\/a-father-son-wearing.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/fed0073c\/a-father-son-wearing.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/fed0073c\/a-father-son-wearing.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A father and son wearing matching jerseys enjoy bonding while playing football at night. The warm at...\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/fed0073c\/a-father-son-wearing.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">SrdjanPav\/E+\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I tell my girls this on the first day of every season, and I mean it every time. Some days we\u2019re doing your favorite thing. Some days we\u2019re doing the thing you hate. The thing you hate is usually the thing that needs work. That\u2019s not a coincidence. I don\u2019t let them skip the hard drills because they don\u2019t feel like it. I don\u2019t let them drift to the stuff they\u2019re already good at and call it practice. That\u2019s not practice. That\u2019s just playing around.<\/p>\n<p>The subject your kid is dreading going back to \u2014 that\u2019s the one. That\u2019s the drill they need to run. Don\u2019t negotiate them out of it. Make the deal: Do the work first, then we talk. It\u2019s the same conversation I have at practice every Tuesday and Thursday, and it works there, too.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Petros, 37, Chicago<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>2. Be The Classmate You Want To Have<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s1076284893\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/aafb009c\/father-sons-enjoying-outdoor.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/aafb009c\/father-sons-enjoying-outdoor.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/aafb009c\/father-sons-enjoying-outdoor.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/aafb009c\/father-sons-enjoying-outdoor.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Father and sons enjoying outdoor time, with one son holding a soccer ball in a sunny park setting.\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/aafb009c\/father-sons-enjoying-outdoor.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">NoSystem images\/E+\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I don\u2019t do big speeches. I never have. I\u2019ve seen coaches do the whole thing \u2014 the whiteboard, the clipboard, the fire-and-brimstone season opener \u2014 and the kids are bored by the second sentence. So I just ask one question: What kind of teammate do you want? And they tell me. Funny. Helpful. Somebody who doesn\u2019t make you feel bad when you mess up. Somebody who actually passes the ball. I write it all down. Then I say, good \u2014 now be all of that.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not complicated. It\u2019s just that nobody asks them the question directly and then holds them to the answer. Try it before school starts. Ask your kid what kind of friend they want to have this year. Then have the second half of that conversation.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Marcus, 29, Dallas<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>3. Try Hard, No Matter What<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s1076284893\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/3cab21f2\/a-soccer-coach-demonstrating.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/3cab21f2\/a-soccer-coach-demonstrating.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/3cab21f2\/a-soccer-coach-demonstrating.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/3cab21f2\/a-soccer-coach-demonstrating.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A soccer coach demonstrating a move to two young players in a park, focusing on technique and skill ...\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/3cab21f2\/a-soccer-coach-demonstrating.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">NoSystem images\/E+\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I\u2019ve been doing this since before most of these parents were driving their kids to practice, and the one thing that has never changed is this: Effort is the one thing every single kid controls completely. Talent, you\u2019re born with, or you\u2019re not. Height, same thing. But running back on defense when you\u2019re tired? Picking yourself up after a bad touch and going again? That\u2019s a choice. I\u2019ve had kids with every physical tool in the world coast through and wonder why they weren\u2019t improving. I\u2019ve had kids who couldn\u2019t trap a ball if their life depended on it go on to be captains because they simply refused to stop working.<\/p>\n<p>Teachers see it the same way I do. The kid who stays after, asks questions, turns things in on time \u2014 that kid builds a reputation. And that reputation opens doors that talent alone doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Pete, 48, Des Moines<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>4. Master The Basics<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s1076284893\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/ff1bb8b6\/loving-african-american-father.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/ff1bb8b6\/loving-african-american-father.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/ff1bb8b6\/loving-african-american-father.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/ff1bb8b6\/loving-african-american-father.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Loving african american father smiling, kneeling down, and teaching his young son how to hold a socc...\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/ff1bb8b6\/loving-african-american-father.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">Gorica Poturak\/E+\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Every season, I get at least one kid who shows up on day one with opinions. Wants to play a different position, run a different shape, do things the way her last team did it. And look \u2014 I love that. I want players who think about the game. But there\u2019s an order of operations. You don\u2019t get to redesign a system you don\u2019t understand yet. So the rule is: First month, you learn why we do what we do. Why we press from the front. Why we switch the point of attack the way we do. <\/p>\n<p>Once you understand the why, then you\u2019ve earned the right to push back.<\/p>\n<p>A new school year means new teachers with their own ways of doing things. The kid who spends the first few weeks actually paying attention \u2014 figuring out how this classroom works before deciding what they think of it \u2014 that kid is so far ahead of the one who comes in with their arms already crossed.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Jermaine, 35, Chicago<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>5. Have A Short Memory For Mistakes<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s1076284893\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/f158f4f1\/father-girl-playing-football.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/f158f4f1\/father-girl-playing-football.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/f158f4f1\/father-girl-playing-football.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/f158f4f1\/father-girl-playing-football.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Father and girl playing football in park. Fathers day concept.\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/f158f4f1\/father-girl-playing-football.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">Halfpoint Images\/Moment\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I have a rule on this team, and it has been the same rule since my first season: You get three seconds after a mistake. Three seconds to be upset, to be frustrated, to feel whatever you feel. Then your head comes back up, and you get back in position. Because here\u2019s the thing: The play is still happening. The game didn\u2019t stop because you had a bad touch. And if you\u2019re standing there feeling sorry for yourself, you\u2019re now two mistakes deep instead of one.<\/p>\n<p>I tell parents this, too, because it applies to everything. Your kid is going to fail a test this year. They\u2019re going to say something wrong in class and feel embarrassed about it. They\u2019re going to have a bad day. In life situations off the field, you get more than three seconds, but the same lesson applies. Acknowledge the mistake and then head up, back in position. The recovery is the name of the game.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Devin, 28, Seattle<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>6. Overcommunicate<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s1076284893\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/8d35ca37\/getty-2274061346.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/8d35ca37\/getty-2274061346.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/8d35ca37\/getty-2274061346.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/8d35ca37\/getty-2274061346.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/8d35ca37\/getty-2274061346.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">imageBROKER\/Unai Huizi\/imageBROKER\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I am obsessive about communication on the field. Obsessive. Not yelling, not blaming \u2014 information. Constant, useful, real-time information between players. Where you are, what you see, what they should do next. Most kids go completely silent under pressure, and that is exactly backwards from what you need. When it\u2019s hardest to talk is when talking matters most.<\/p>\n<p>I tell my players: A quiet team is a confused team. And a confused team gives the ball away. It\u2019s the same thing off the field. The kid who speaks up in class, who says hi to the kid sitting alone at lunch, who tells a friend when something\u2019s wrong \u2014 that kid ends up in the middle of things. The good things. Make some noise this year. Say something.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Ray, 56, Oklahoma City<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>7. Prioritize Rest<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s1076284893\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/a60930e5\/getty-1288727513.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/a60930e5\/getty-1288727513.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/a60930e5\/getty-1288727513.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/a60930e5\/getty-1288727513.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/9\/a60930e5\/getty-1288727513.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">Lane Oatey \/ Blue Jean Images\/blue jean images\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I played college soccer, and I will tell you that the thing nobody taught me until it was almost too late was how to rest. We were all conditioned to think that more was always better \u2014 more sprints, more film, more time in the gym. And there\u2019s a point where more just breaks you. The best thing I ever did for my game was learn to take recovery seriously. Sleep. Real sleep. Not optional, not a treat \u2014 part of the program.<\/p>\n<p>I build rest into my players\u2019 weeks now, and I don\u2019t let them feel guilty about it. The brain works the same way the body does. It consolidates everything it learned while you sleep. So if your kid is heading back to school and you\u2019re letting them stay up until midnight on their phone \u2014 that\u2019s not a small thing. That\u2019s undermining everything they did that day. Rest is not laziness. I promise you it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Jes\u00fas, 33, Phoenix<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>8. Show Up Early<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s-322227085\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/9a41a6c7\/father-helping-his-daughter.jpg?w=824&amp;h=550&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/9a41a6c7\/father-helping-his-daughter.jpg?w=824&amp;h=550&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/9a41a6c7\/father-helping-his-daughter.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/9a41a6c7\/father-helping-his-daughter.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Father helping his daughter putting on a backpack, preparing for school in their home\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/9a41a6c7\/father-helping-his-daughter.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">Ivan Pantic\/E+\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I\u2019ve been watching kids show up to this field for a long time, and I can tell you \u2014 the ones who get there early are different. Not because they\u2019re more talented. Because they\u2019ve had time to settle in. They\u2019ve already touched a ball, already talked to a teammate, already figured out where they are and what they\u2019re doing before anything\u2019s officially started. They\u2019re comfortable. The ones sprinting in right at the whistle are always the ones who take the whole first half to find their rhythm.<\/p>\n<p>So on the first day of school, get there early. Your kid will have the chance to find the right classroom, ask any questions, and breathe a little bit. It\u2019s a small thing that changes the whole morning.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Sal, 56, Atlanta<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>9. Don\u2019t Quit<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s-1451526949\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/6f22cd73\/tired-daughter-embracing-father.jpg?w=824&amp;h=548&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/6f22cd73\/tired-daughter-embracing-father.jpg?w=824&amp;h=548&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/6f22cd73\/tired-daughter-embracing-father.jpg?w=414&amp;h=275&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/6f22cd73\/tired-daughter-embracing-father.jpg?w=414&amp;h=275&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Tired daughter embracing father.\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/6f22cd73\/tired-daughter-embracing-father.jpg?w=414&amp;h=275&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">Yuliya Taba\/E+\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I coach little kids. Eight-year-olds. So I see a lot of feelings on this field, and I\u2019ve been real clear about my policy since day one: All the feelings are allowed. You can cry. You can tell me you need a minute. You can be upset. None of that is a problem. What you cannot do is walk off this field and decide you\u2019re done. That\u2019s the one thing I won\u2019t accept. And I don\u2019t say it mean \u2014 I just say it clearly, and I say it early, so it\u2019s already been said when the moment comes.<\/p>\n<p>Back to school is hard for a lot of kids, and I think parents sometimes feel like they\u2019re supposed to pretend it isn\u2019t. The anxiety is real. The overwhelm is real. Your kid can feel all of it and still go. That\u2019s actually the lesson \u2014 that you\u2019re allowed to struggle and still show up. Those two things can both be true at the same time.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Dana, 41, Cleveland<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>10. Know When To Step Up And When To Step Back<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s-238883790\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/04794e08\/happy-latin-american-boy.jpg?w=824&amp;h=520&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/04794e08\/happy-latin-american-boy.jpg?w=824&amp;h=520&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/04794e08\/happy-latin-american-boy.jpg?w=414&amp;h=261&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/04794e08\/happy-latin-american-boy.jpg?w=414&amp;h=261&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Happy Latin American boy saying goodbye to his father after dropping him by car at soccer practice\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/04794e08\/happy-latin-american-boy.jpg?w=414&amp;h=261&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">andresr\/E+\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I think about the game the way I think about conversation. There are moments when you have to speak \u2014 when you see the opening, and you have to take it, because if you wait, it\u2019ll be gone. And there are moments when the best thing you can do is find the person in a better position and give it to them. The hardest thing to coach is the judgment between those two moments. A player who always shoots is a ball hog. A player who always passes is invisible. The great ones \u2014 the really great ones \u2014 know the difference in real time.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s an ego conversation as much as it\u2019s a soccer conversation. Knowing when to speak up in class and when to let someone else take the floor. When to lead a group project and when to step back and support. It\u2019s one of the harder things to teach, and one of the more important ones. Start having that conversation now, before the year starts.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Anton, 39, San Francisco<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>11. Seek Out Opportunities To Improve<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s-322227085\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/d156f61b\/a-cheerful-young-boy.jpg?w=824&amp;h=550&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/d156f61b\/a-cheerful-young-boy.jpg?w=824&amp;h=550&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/d156f61b\/a-cheerful-young-boy.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/d156f61b\/a-cheerful-young-boy.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A cheerful young boy engaging with a soccer ball in a sunny park, embodying the spirit of playfulnes...\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/d156f61b\/a-cheerful-young-boy.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">supersizer\/E+\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I want my players to come to me. That\u2019s the whole thing. I make myself as available as I possibly can because I know from experience that the kids who ask questions are the ones who get better. Not always the most talented kids \u2014 just the ones who seek feedback and then actually do something with it. Every season, the gap I notice most isn\u2019t about skill. It\u2019s about which kids advocate for themselves and which ones wait to be noticed.<\/p>\n<p>Teachers work the same way I do. They want to help \u2014 they really do \u2014 but they\u2019re managing a roomful of kids, and they can\u2019t chase all of them down. The ones who stay after, send the email, ask what they missed and what they can do better \u2014 those are the ones who get more of the good stuff. It\u2019s not about being the favorite. It\u2019s about knowing how to ask for help. That skill will serve your kid for the rest of their life.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014 Greg, 53, Houston<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>12. Be A Good Community Member<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s1076284893\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/029fe1f3\/family-enjoy-in-nature.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/029fe1f3\/family-enjoy-in-nature.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/029fe1f3\/family-enjoy-in-nature.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/029fe1f3\/family-enjoy-in-nature.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Family enjoy in nature at the sunset.\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/getty\/2026\/7\/10\/029fe1f3\/family-enjoy-in-nature.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\"><cite class=\"Afu\">Vilin Visuals\/E+\/Getty Images<\/cite><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>I coach at the level where it starts to get serious. Parents are thinking about high school rosters, kids are thinking about highlight reels, everybody\u2019s tracking individual stats. And I am here to tell you \u2014 from where I stand on this sideline \u2014 that the players who make the biggest difference are almost never the ones you\u2019d expect.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had physically gifted kids who played every game like it was an audition and made everyone around them worse for it. And I\u2019ve had kids who, by every measurable standard, were average, who won us games because they made their teammates better. They covered for people, they communicated, and they did the stuff that doesn\u2019t show up in the box score.<\/p>\n<p>We spend so much time on our kids as individuals \u2014 their grades, their performance, their future \u2014 that we sometimes forget to teach them how to be good at being part of something. That\u2019s a skill too. Maybe the most important one. The school year is long and almost entirely a team sport. 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