{"id":7062998,"date":"2026-09-21T11:10:16","date_gmt":"2026-09-21T11:10:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/be-a-servant-parent-not-a-slave-parent\/"},"modified":"2026-09-21T11:10:16","modified_gmt":"2026-09-21T11:10:16","slug":"be-a-servant-parent-not-a-slave-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7062998","title":{"rendered":"Be A Servant Parent Not A Slave Parent"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>Disclaimer: affiliate links may be in the post<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%22http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%22%20viewBox%3D%220%200%20911%20512%22%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-src=\"https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_911,h_512\/https:\/\/www.survivingadventures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Untitled-design-8-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"Parent\" class=\"wp-image-5475 lazy\" width=\"911\" height=\"512\" title=\"Be A Servant Parent Not A Slave Parent 1\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1024\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_300\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_768\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1280\/https:\/\/www.survivingadventures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Untitled-design-8.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1024\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_300\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_768\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1280\/https:\/\/www.survivingadventures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Untitled-design-8.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1024\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_300\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_768\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1280\/https:\/\/www.survivingadventures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Untitled-design-8.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1024\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_300\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_768\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1280\/https:\/\/www.survivingadventures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Untitled-design-8.jpg 1280w\" data-sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 911px) 100vw, 911px\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Servant leadership is a term that David introduced to me. He has taken many leadership classes and always shares what he has learned, along with being a supervisor of an Information Technology Branch with over 27 employees. A servant leader is described as a leader who is concerned with their followers or, in this case, children. They aren\u2019t simply concerned with achieving some goal\u00a0(Northouse, 2013, p. 219).<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, a slave parent gets taken for granted. We have seen them shopping, and the kid throws a temper tantrum. There are some subtle ways that this can manifest.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have been trying to do my best to raise my kids to be happy, healthy, and hopefully responsible. As a mother, I cannot tell you how often I have gotten upset about cleaning my children\u2019s room during the weekdays when they are at school only for one if not both, turning it into a disaster area within the first 5 minutes of coming home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I try to have them maintain a clean environment throughout the week and do big chores like laundry, changing their sheets, etc., on weekends. I would have to say it is a cultural thing and a mindset I grew up with. If it isn\u2019t perfectly clean, it isn\u2019t enough, and I HAVE TO MAKE IT NICE!<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed aligncenter is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<p> <span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Gary Gives Brutally Honest Advice\" width=\"840\" height=\"473\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/XY5WUFnBvFw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/span><\/p><figcaption>Hard language warning!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yeah, the reality is that it doesn\u2019t work that way. Moms, I don\u2019t know about you, but just trying to keep the house perfectly clutter-free is stressful and can lead to unnecessary arguments. Is it that serious to focus so much energy on that? The answer (at least mine) is NO, it isn\u2019t. Hubby had a big role in pointing that out, and I am happier and saner for it. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I came across something a while back (I don\u2019t remember if it is a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.survivingadventures.com\/reading-list\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"1650\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">book\/article<\/a>, etc.), but the biggest thing I remember was they kept saying, \u201cDon\u2019t clean the toilet.\u201d As in, don\u2019t keep hounding your kids and repeating yourself. It becomes expected and only aggravates you, which is so true! I had to share the following article because she talks about parents being servants and how that can negatively impact your children in the future.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span id=\"Happy_Kids_Happy_Parents\">Happy Kids, Happy Parents<\/span><\/h3>\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>By Winsome Coutts<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a grandmother and self-help writer, I\u2019m often asked by readers, \u201cHow do you raise happy kids?\u201d This is a question near and dear to every loving parent\u2019s heart. No matter what we teach them, if we haven\u2019t taught them how to be happy or can\u2019t parent in a way that makes them feel happy, it\u2019s rather all for naught, isn\u2019t it? So it\u2019s a very pertinent question.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019ve been blessed with having two happy children and two happy grandchildren. I applied certain principles in raising my kids and see my son and daughter-in-law apply the same in raising their adorable daughters, Klara and Stina. In this article, I\u2019ll share two tips I\u2019ve learned.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first is the importance of modeling happiness. You can\u2019t give something you don\u2019t have. How can you teach kids happiness if you don\u2019t have it yourself? Some parents think loving their family means living only for them, driving them everywhere, cleaning up after them, and putting their kids\u2019 needs and desires ahead of their own. Parenting shouldn\u2019t turn us into a short-order restaurant or a cleaning or taxi service. It does for some parents. That teaches kids a bad lesson.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A child who perceives his parent as a servant, someone whose life has meaning only through catering to his whims, learns to be selfish. He comes to believe others exist to do his bidding. I have a friend who was raised like that, and she tells me when she grew up, she kept having a strange feeling, \u201cWhere are all the servants?\u201d Being catered to was such an ingrained part of her childhood that adjusting to adulthood was difficult because \u201cthe servants\u201d were missing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kids raised this way tend to feel the world owes them a living. So breaking out of the \u201cdoormat\u201d mode, if you\u2019re in one, is pretty central to giving your kid a chance at a smooth transition to happy adulthood.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you take care of yourself, make time for yourself, and do things that make you happy, your child learns those behaviors from you. If she sees you going for your dreams and making decisions based on your inner truth, she learns that doing those things is good. On the other hand, if you model dropping everything to fulfill her latest dictate, she learns that parenting means self-denial and victimization. She may become a self-effacing parent or go the other extreme and forego parenting entirely because it looks like such a sacrifice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, to raise happy kids, be good to yourself. Treat yourself with respect and dignity the same as you treat your child. Don\u2019t allow disrespect toward you any more than you\u2019d allow someone to be rude to your kids. Make time for your creative desires and dreams. Plan in some scheduled personal time each week (or day), and ensure you take it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let your kids see you\u2019re doing this, and tell them the reason: \u201cMommy needs to have some fun, too,\u201d or \u201cMoms need time every day to relax.\u201d This shows your child that you value yourself and that personal time is important to everyone\u2019s happiness.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The second tip I\u2019ve learned for raising happy kids is the tremendous value of focused attention. The best form this can take is uninterrupted, one-on-one personal time with your child. Think back to your own childhood and some of your happiest memories. Chances are they include that hike you took with Dad or when you and Mom went to the restaurant for dessert.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%22http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%22%20viewBox%3D%220%200%202560%201707%22%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.survivingadventures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/IMG_0874-scaled.jpg?fit=640%2C427&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"Surviving Adventures - Family, Career, &amp; Adventure | Be A Servant Parent Not A Slave Parent 1\" class=\"wp-image-4615 lazy\" title=\"Be A Servant Parent Not A Slave Parent 2\" 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https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_2560\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_300\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1024\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_768\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1536\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_2048\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_900\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_1280\/https:\/\/sp-ao.shortpixel.ai\/client\/to_webp,q_lossy,ret_img,w_2400\/https:\/\/www.survivingadventures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/IMG_0874-scaled.jpg 2400w\" data-sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\"\/><figcaption>Mt. Rainier<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When we set aside an hour or two to be with our child, away from distractions and interruptions, we tell him he is important and loved. Giving focused attention is much more powerful than the diffused attention kids get while we cook dinner, drive them somewhere, or break up conversations to take calls on our cell phones.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Children thrive on loving, focused, personal attention like plants thrive on sunshine. Structure in some focused attention daily, even for only five or ten minutes. Look at your child when he talks to you, so he knows you\u2019re complete with him. In love, it\u2019s the subtle things that count.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Giving focused attention teaches self-worth: your child knows she\u2019s valuable because you value her enough to carve out time for you and her, uninterrupted by the world, for those moments. That spells love, and when she knows you love her by your actions, not your words, that brings security and heart fulfillment, essential foundations of happiness.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In this busy world where parents work two jobs and where kids\u2019 social calendars can rival those of debutants, it isn\u2019t easy to make time to take care of yourself and uninterrupted time for you and your child. But for happiness, nothing could be more important. Think about your schedule, what is nonessential that you can cut out, or wasted moments that you can eliminate. Use that harvested time to be good to you and your kid. Your child\u2019s happiness, and yours, depends on it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Winsome Coutts<\/strong>\u00a0holds a teacher\u2019s certificate in education and has written hundreds of articles on self-development. She has studied with Bob Proctor and John Demartini, popular teachers featured on \u201cThe Secret\u201d DVD. She is the passion behind <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"http:\/\/davidmh77.4lifekids.hop.clickbank.net\" target=\"_blank\">www.4lifehappykids.com<\/a>\u00a0and is a parent and grandparent.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Winsome is the author of \u201cGo for Your Goals\u201d for Kids \u2013 a set of downloadable e-books that guide your child through the joyful steps of learning visualization, goal-setting, and the Law of Attraction. Simple language enhanced with beautiful illustrations and worksheets makes these books appealing and motivating. To learn more, visit\u00a0<a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"http:\/\/davidmh77.4lifekids.hop.clickbank.net\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">www.4lifehappykids.com<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span id=\"What_Servant_Parenting_Looks_Like_in_Practice\">What Servant Parenting Looks Like in Practice<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The distinction between a servant parent and a slave parent sounds philosophical until you watch it play out in the grocery store, at bedtime, or in the middle of a homework argument. A servant parent is intentional. They lead with the long-term development of the child in mind, not the immediate comfort of the moment. A slave parent responds to each demand reactively, often out of guilt, exhaustion, or a deep desire to be liked by their own children. The difference in outcomes, compounded over years, is significant.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In our family, Mary has worked to build age-appropriate responsibility into the daily routine. Not because she does not love helping the kids, but precisely because she does. A 10-year-old who cannot make a sandwich, clean their own room, or manage a simple schedule is not a happy child \u2014 they are an anxious one who has never been shown how to trust their own competence. Building competence requires letting children do things imperfectly, fail occasionally, and experience the natural consequences of their choices. None of that happens in a household where the parent anticipates and absorbs every difficulty before the child encounters it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span id=\"Practical_Ways_to_Lead_as_a_Servant_Parent\">Practical Ways to Lead as a Servant Parent<\/span><\/h2>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Assign real chores with real stakes.<\/strong> Not symbolic chores that get quietly redone by a parent afterward, but tasks that matter to the household and that children are expected to complete to an acceptable standard. The bar can be adjusted for age; the expectation of genuine contribution should not be.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Let natural consequences do the teaching.<\/strong> If a child forgets their lunch, the consequence is being hungry at school. If they leave their bike outside and it gets rained on, the consequence is a wet bike. Shielding children from all consequences is not protection \u2014 it is deprivation of the feedback loop they need to develop judgment.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Model self-care and personal time.<\/strong> As Winsome Coutts notes above, a parent who never prioritizes their own wellbeing teaches children that parenthood means self-erasure. Taking time for yourself, naming it clearly to your children, and returning to the family refreshed is a parenting act, not a selfish one.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Require respect, not obedience.<\/strong> There is a difference between a child who is compliant out of fear and a child who treats parents with genuine respect because they have been treated with respect themselves. Servant leadership builds the second kind of child.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The goal of servant parenting is not to produce children who are easy to parent right now. It is to produce adults who are capable of taking care of themselves, contributing to the people around them, and building a life that does not depend on someone else absorbing all of their consequences. That outcome requires parents who are willing to play the long game, even when the short game \u2014 the quick yes, the prevented meltdown, the absorbed chore \u2014 is so much easier in the moment.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span id=\"The_Long_View_on_Servant_Parenting\">The Long View on Servant Parenting<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The return on servant parenting is not measured in compliant children who are easy to manage today. It is measured in the adults those children become \u2014 people who take responsibility for their own lives, show up for others without needing to be asked, and navigate difficulty without looking for someone else to absorb the consequences. 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