{"id":7061513,"date":"2026-09-19T22:59:03","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T22:59:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/safety-behaviours-the-short-term-relief-that-prolongs-the-pain\/"},"modified":"2026-09-19T22:59:03","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T22:59:03","slug":"safety-behaviours-the-short-term-relief-that-prolongs-the-pain","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7061513","title":{"rendered":"Safety Behaviours: The Short-Term Relief That Prolongs The Pain"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div xmlns:default=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" itemprop=\"text\">\n<p>Safety behaviours in the workplace are a great thing to have, that\u2019s why we have fire safety drills and the like. However, when it comes to our mental wellbeing they are very much part of the problem. In this article I\u2019ll explain why, and how to dismantle such safety behaviours.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-Are-Safety-Behaviours\"\/>What Are Safety Behaviours<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>In the context of psychology and mental health, safety behaviours are <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/coping-strategies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">coping strategies<\/a><\/span> used to \u201csurvive\u201d a perceived threat. This sounds like a good thing on paper, but the relationship between safety behaviours and mental health is paradoxical.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Safety behaviours feel helpful in the moment, but they actually maintain the cycle of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span>. This is also how they differ from healthy preparation and adaptive <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/coping-strategies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">coping strategies<\/a><\/span> (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Thwaites\">Thwaites and Freeston<\/a><\/span>, 2005), because their primary <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/creating-goals-so-you-can-overcome-your-difficulties\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">goal<\/a><\/span> is to prevent a feared outcome that is usually unlikely to happen.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>This is what makes safety behaviours a double-edged sword. They start off feeling helpful because they are. They help manage the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> and discomfort that\u2019s right before us, but that\u2019s also part of the problem. Because in the long-term, that short-term relief in the form of safety behaviours is detrimental to our recovery.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>According to <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Goodson\">Goodson, Patel, Zech, Sala, and Cougle<\/a><\/span>\u00a0(2026), safety behaviours are actions or strategies we adopt to manage <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> or distress, such as phobias, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/the-spotlight-effect-and-social-anxiety-all-eyes-on-me\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">social anxiety disorder<\/a><\/span>, health anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/mental-health\/conditions\/ptsd-post-traumatic-stress-disorder\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">PTSD<\/a><\/span>). The immediate relief they can provide is addictive, and it\u2019s the easiest way to manage the discomfort we\u2019re trying to manage or avoid. I know, I\u2019ve been there.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>But each use of our safety behaviours reinforces the very anxieties they\u2019re meant to mitigate. By sticking with our safety behaviours, we\u2019re not allowing ourselves the opportunity to challenge the very thing that\u2019s causing us to use these safety behaviours (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Evans\">Evans, Chiu, Clark, Waite, and Leigh<\/a><\/span>, 2021).<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Like a lot of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span> that we can develop, taking the shape of one of the many <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety disorders<\/a><\/span>, many of them aren\u2019t realistic or are extremely unlikely. But the use of safety behaviours will power up that fear so it never goes away.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Anxiety disorders<\/a><\/span> and safety behaviours work together like a hand in a glove (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Meyer\">Meyer, Kirk, Arch, Kelly, and Deacon<\/a><\/span>, 2019). Think of it like throwing fuel on a fire rather than sand or water. In some situations, as I said, there may be a legitimate reason for our safety behaviours, ones that don\u2019t feed the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span>. That\u2019s when they become adaptive <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/coping-strategies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">coping strategies<\/a><\/span> (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Thwaites\">Thwaites and Freeston<\/a><\/span>, 2005).<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Furthermore, figuring out the difference between a safety behaviour and an adaptive <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/coping-strategies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">coping strategy<\/a><\/span> (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Thwaites\">Thwaites and Freeston<\/a><\/span>, 2005) is difficult at the best of times, but this is made worse when a chronic health problem is thrown into the mix (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Sharpe\">Sharpe et al.<\/a><\/span>, 2022).<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Common-Safety-Behaviours\"\/>Common Safety Behaviours<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Rehearsing\"\/><strong>Rehearsing<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>Someone with <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/hikikomori\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">social anxiety<\/a><\/span> or phone anxiety may find themselves rehearsing sentences before speaking. They may even write out a little script when they have to make a phone call. I know I did.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Body-language\"\/><strong>Body language<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>Another socially relevant safety behaviour is avoiding eye contact. Again, something common with those of us with <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/hikikomori\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">social anxiety<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Checking-behaviours\"\/><strong>Checking behaviours<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>The one we\u2019re most familiar with is how people with obsessive-compulsive disorder (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Obsessive%E2%80%93compulsive_disorder\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">OCD<\/a><\/span>) engage in constant <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/how-the-easy-shisa-kanko-method-overcomes-double-checking\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">checking<\/a><\/span>. But it can be the same with people who have healthy anxiety, who may have to keep <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/how-the-easy-shisa-kanko-method-overcomes-double-checking\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">checking<\/a><\/span> their symptoms using AI or googling. They could also feel the need to regularly check things like their pulse. Repeated body <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/how-the-easy-shisa-kanko-method-overcomes-double-checking\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">checking<\/a><\/span> was one of my safety behaviours, to see if I was wet.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Carrying-unneeded-items\"\/><strong>Carrying unneeded items<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>Depending on how their <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> affects a person, it could range from carrying a change of underwear to carrying medication. Just in case.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Exists\"\/><strong>Exists<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>Another common safety behaviour is to stay close to the exists. Or at least knowing where they all are. For me, it helped to know where the toilets were.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Communication\"\/><strong>Communication<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>It\u2019s common to either not talk about ourselves, censor what we say, or to just be very quiet in any social situation. This is done to avoid the possibility of embarrassing ourselves or somehow causing someone to judge us in a negative way (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Evans\">Evans, Chiu, Clark, Waite, and Leigh<\/a><\/span>, 2021).<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The-False-Credit-Problem\"\/>The False Credit Problem<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>The reason why safety behaviours can be so effective in reinforcing our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fears<\/a><\/span> is that we misattribute our success in not having an <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> or <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/how-to-kick-agoraphobia-and-panic-to-the-curb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">panic<\/a><\/span> episode to the safety behaviours. In season seven, episode 23 of The Simpsons, Lisa and Homer encapsulate this quite well when talking about the Bear Patrol and how a rock can keep tigers away.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"S07E23 - The Rock that Keeps Tigers Away\" width=\"840\" height=\"630\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4GzMizVAl-0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>When we credit the wrong thing, it prevents our brain from learning that the situation is inherently safe (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Sharpe\">Sharpe et al.<\/a><\/span>, 2022). Therefore, it keeps us trapped in a loop of needing these safety behaviours to function. We may feel like we\u2019ve avoided or escaped the situation, but then we\u2019re left with the belief that we only survived because of this safety behaviour, rather than through our own ability.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Using safety behaviours is exhausting. They rob us of our quality of life, and they stop us from learning that we can tolerate that which causes us <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span>, meaning we can\u2019t grow.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>The amount of time and energy I wasted on self-monitoring, let alone the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/stress\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">stress<\/a><\/span> all this caused, is staggering. I was just so desperate to avoid my worst <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span> happening, even though it had never happened in the first place. The latter is often the case for most people who use safety behaviours (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Thwaites\">Thwaites and Freeston<\/a><\/span>, 2005).<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Safety-Behaviours-And-Their-Costs\"\/>Safety Behaviours And Their Costs<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>There are many flavours of safety behaviours, some of which can be very subtle. The following is a breakdown of some of the safety behaviours we might find ourselves engaging in.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Avoidance\"\/><strong>Avoidance<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>Avoidance is the top dog of safety behaviours; it\u2019s also the strongest factor in maintaining the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span> underpinning our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Sharpe\">Sharpe et al.<\/a><\/span>, 2022). Avoidance can take several forms, and not all of them will be overt, so we might not even realise we\u2019re engaging in avoidance.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>But one thing that doesn\u2019t change is how it\u2019s reflected in our self-reported <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> and sense of authenticity (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Evans\">Evans, Chiu, Clark, Waite, and Leigh<\/a><\/span>, 2021).\u00a0<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Escape\"\/><strong>Escape<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>A common thing people experience is the desire to leave a situation once <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> starts to escalate. It makes sense. When we feel our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> levels rising, leaving the situation seems like the best thing to do.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>But when we do it all the time, we never give ourselves a chance to confront it and stay in the discomfort. Before long, instead of escaping, we\u2019ll just start avoiding the situations that trigger us altogether.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Neutralisation\"\/><strong>Neutralisation<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>This is often pitched as a <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/coping-strategies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">coping strategy<\/a><\/span>, and for some it may be just that. But for others, it can just become another safety behaviour. That\u2019s because engaging in some form of distraction, a ritual, or routines to counteract <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> doesn\u2019t help us overcome the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Seeking-reassurance\"\/><strong>Seeking reassurance<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>When I had my first full-on <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/musings\/my-psychosis-art-project-where-art-meets-mental-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">psychotic break<\/a><\/span>, I sought reassurance from others because I no longer trusted my perspective on reality. But it can also manifest in other ways, such as checking in on our partners or constantly asking if you\u2019re doing a good enough job at something.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Maintain-negative-thoughts\"\/><strong>Maintain negative thoughts<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>By avoiding our triggers, we never get to challenge our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fears<\/a><\/span> and learn to cope with them in a healthy way. This reinforces the belief that the threats are real and dangerous, which makes those unwanted <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/intrusive-thoughts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">intrusive thoughts<\/a><\/span> so much stronger.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Limit-life-experiences\"\/><strong>Limit life experiences<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing more limiting to our quality of life than the obstacles we put in our own way, and our use of safety behaviours is one of those obstacles. Avoidance restricts our life and prevents us from engaging in activities we enjoy or need to do.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>This can lead to isolation and decreased independence. As such, we might not try anything new because we don\u2019t want to be seen as rubbish or may be too scared to socialise with people we don\u2019t know who\u2019ll be there.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium_large wp-image-17546\" src=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/pin-Safety-Behaviours-The-Short-Term-Relief-That-Prolongs-The-Pain-anxiety-Unwanted-Life-400x600.png\" alt=\"The picture is split in two, with the top image being of a group of people in building safety gear. The bottom image being of two people on a roof in safety gear. The two images are separated by the article title - Safety Behaviours: The Short-Term Relief That Prolongs The Pain\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/pin-Safety-Behaviours-The-Short-Term-Relief-That-Prolongs-The-Pain-anxiety-Unwanted-Life-400x600.png 400w, https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/pin-Safety-Behaviours-The-Short-Term-Relief-That-Prolongs-The-Pain-anxiety-Unwanted-Life-333x500.png 333w, https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/pin-Safety-Behaviours-The-Short-Term-Relief-That-Prolongs-The-Pain-anxiety-Unwanted-Life-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/pin-Safety-Behaviours-The-Short-Term-Relief-That-Prolongs-The-Pain-anxiety-Unwanted-Life-100x150.png 100w, https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/pin-Safety-Behaviours-The-Short-Term-Relief-That-Prolongs-The-Pain-anxiety-Unwanted-Life-233x350.png 233w, https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/pin-Safety-Behaviours-The-Short-Term-Relief-That-Prolongs-The-Pain-anxiety-Unwanted-Life-300x450.png 300w, https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/pin-Safety-Behaviours-The-Short-Term-Relief-That-Prolongs-The-Pain-anxiety-Unwanted-Life.png 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\"\/><\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Increase-anxiety-in-the-long-run\"\/><strong>Increase anxiety in the long run<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>As previously stated several times, safety behaviours are fuel for our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> fire. Over-reliance on safety behaviours just makes us more sensitive to <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> in the future. Every time we avoid a trigger, we expand our catalogue of examples that confirm our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span>. This then leads to heightened <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> in similar situations. This stops us from learning that the feared outcome is unlikely or manageable.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Delay-recovery\"\/><strong>Delay recovery<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>Safety behaviours will distract us from addressing the underlying <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> belief, and thus will delay true recovery. They\u2019re just a way of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/masking-the-hidden-struggle-of-concealing-autism-asd-traits\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">masking<\/a><\/span> the problem instead of solving it. Even well-meaning advice can become part of the problem.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>It\u2019s\u00a0important to be aware that some treatment suggestions can help us with getting a better grasp of our fears, but they too can turn into safety behaviours if we don\u2019t also work to reduce our reliance on them. This can make things like <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/10-great-breathing-exercises-for-your-mental-wellbeing\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">breathing exercises<\/a><\/span> both helpful, but also a problem if left in place (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Thwaites\">Thwaites and Freeston<\/a><\/span>, 2005).\u00a0<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dependency\"\/><strong>Dependency<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>Relying on safety behaviours may (almost always will) create a dependency on them to cope with <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span>. It doesn\u2019t take much for us to feel like we\u2019re unable to manage <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> without these safety behaviours, leading to increased <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> when they\u2019re unavailable.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Interfering-with-learning\"\/><strong>Interfering with learning<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>Life is really a series of lessons, and safety behaviours prevent us from learning the correct lesson. That we can manage anxiety-provoking situations without these actions. This hinders the development of more adaptive <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/coping-strategies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">coping skills<\/a><\/span>, eroding our mental wellbeing and quality of life as a result. Of course, this also means we\u2019ll avoid other situations where personal growth or <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/achievements-collage-a-quick-and-easy-way-to-celebrate-yourself\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">achievement<\/a><\/span> is possible.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Managing-And-Overcoming-Our-Reliance-On-Safety-Behaviours\"\/>Managing And Overcoming Our Reliance On Safety Behaviours<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>As someone who has a fondness for cognitive behavioural approaches like <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/exposure-therapy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">exposure therapy<\/a><\/span>, reducing and ideally eliminating safety behaviours is very important (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Sharpe\">Sharpe et al.<\/a><\/span>, 2022). Therefore, factoring in a systematic approach to reducing and eliminating safety behaviours during treatment for all <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety disorders<\/a><\/span> is important, because it enhances outcomes (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Goodson\">Goodson, Patel, Zech, Sala, and Cougle<\/a><\/span>, 2026).<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Identification\"\/><strong>Identification<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>A good place to start is figuring out what our safety behaviours are. This makes for a good <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/Journaling\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">journaling<\/a><\/span> task, and only requires us to notice the subtle habits used to feel \u201cok\u201d in <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/stress\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">stressful<\/a><\/span> environments. If we identify our trigger while doing this as well, all the better.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Experimentation\"\/><strong>Experimentation<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>This is a simplified approach to <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/exposure-therapy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">exposure therapy<\/a><\/span>, where we can slowly enter a situation while intentionally dropping one specific safety behaviour, or at least prolonging the time before we fall back on it.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>When doing this experiment, observe whether the feared catastrophe occurred or not. By removing these barriers, the mind finally receives the evidence it needs to build <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/building-resilience-an-amazing-guide-to-psychological-durability\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">resilience<\/a><\/span>, confidence, and start growing a book of evidence that what we feared doesn\u2019t deserve our time and energy.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Changing-view-on-safety-behaviours\"\/><strong>Changing view on safety behaviours<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>A strategy suggested by <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Meyer\">Meyer, Kirk, Arch, Kelly, and Deacon<\/a><\/span> (2019) as a result of their study, is to make sure we explore and challenge the beliefs around safety behaviours. They feel safe for a reason, and we use them because we feel they work. So it makes sense that any strategy to stop using them would benefit from challenging the belief in their effectiveness and usefulness.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Exposure-therapy\"\/><strong>Exposure therapy<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>In the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Thwaites\">Thwaites and Freeston<\/a><\/span> (2005) paper, they discussed a clinical client who was scared they\u2019d have a heart attack. For 13 years they wouldn\u2019t go anywhere without a trusted adult. They\u2019d never had an issue with their heart, yet this <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span> existed. Having that trusted person with them whenever they went meant they credited the trusted friend being there as working, when really it wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>I\u2019ve been in that near-exact situation myself, where I struggled to leave my comfort area without having someone with me, which was often my partner. They took time off to go to my many hospital appointments because of this issue. But then I decided to stop letting my <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span> control me, and I stopped engaging in my safety behaviours.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t easy in the beginning. Ignoring our safety behaviours is very hard, because we have nothing but the discomfort and <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span> pumping through our veins. But the benefits of doing so were massive for me. I pretty much stopped having <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/psychotic-episodes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">psychotic episodes<\/a><\/span>, as mine were triggered by my <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span>. Going from daily episodes to years without one was huge. And this was because I took on an <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/exposure-therapy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">exposure therapy<\/a><\/span> mindset.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Furthermore, according to <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"#Evans\">Evans, Chiu, Clark, Waite, and Leigh<\/a><\/span> (2021), people rate our conversational quality as less likeable when we\u2019re avoiding participating freely in the conversation. That\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span> of being judged negatively or want to avoid embarrassing ourselves, ends backfiring.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>This means that being an active participant in social interactions, rather than being silent, will be better at getting the positive impression we\u2019re hoping for, and means we don\u2019t have to live our lives inauthentically. In short. Ditch the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/masking-the-hidden-struggle-of-concealing-autism-asd-traits\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mask<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Creating an exposure plan is fairly simple; we start with a fear hierarchy, creating a list from the least triggering situation to the most triggering situation. Then, working from the least triggering situation, we create a plan to overcome it.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>An easy example is a fear of spiders. We may start with looking at a simple drawing of a spider, moving on to a detailed drawing, then maybe a photo, then a video; you get the idea. We move up the fear hierarchy once we\u2019ve become comfortable with the current step we\u2019re on.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pointing-and-saying\"\/><strong>Pointing and saying<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>There\u2019s a useful <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/how-the-easy-shisa-kanko-method-overcomes-double-checking\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">checking<\/a><\/span> method from Japan, called <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/how-the-easy-shisa-kanko-method-overcomes-double-checking\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Shisa Kanko<\/a><\/span>, which can help restore our trust in our own memory. So if we do a lot of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/how-the-easy-shisa-kanko-method-overcomes-double-checking\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">checking<\/a><\/span>, like <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/how-the-easy-shisa-kanko-method-overcomes-double-checking\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">checking<\/a><\/span> the cooker is off several times, then doing this once, pointing at the cooker, and saying the cooker is off, can help us stop that <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/how-the-easy-shisa-kanko-method-overcomes-double-checking\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">checking<\/a><\/span> behaviour.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Once we have trust in our memory again, we can then try to cut down on this approach so it doesn\u2019t become just another safety behaviour.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cognitive-reappraisal\"\/><strong>Cognitive reappraisal<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>It can be useful to reevaluate our past experiences that help support our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span>, to see how true that it is. My <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> and <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/drug-induced-psychosis-and-my-anxiety-disorders\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">psychosis<\/a><\/span> had me so convinced that I\u2019d pee myself or lose bowel control in public that I didn\u2019t stop to think that I had got through thousands of examples where that never happened, but it had never happened to me in the first place.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>This also helps to place the success in getting through those situations in the right place. This is why I added a <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/cognitive-reappraisal-the-ability-to-look-for-the-silver-lining\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cognitive reappraisal<\/a><\/span> to the start of my <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/shop.unwantedlife.me\/product\/exposure-therapy-workbook-2nd-ed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">second edition exposure workbook<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Identify-triggers\"\/><strong>Identify triggers<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>As stated further up in this list, identifying our triggers can be useful. Once we start paying attention, we can become aware of the situations, thoughts, or feelings that trigger our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span>, and what triggers our use of safety behaviours we use to cope. We can then take steps to better manage our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> and our response to our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Challenge-negative-thoughts\"\/><strong>Challenge negative thoughts<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>A reliable strategy to overcome our safety behaviours is to challenge the thoughts that either trigger the safety behaviours or are a general response to the thing we\u2019re trying to avoid.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>There\u2019s two solid thought challenges for this. There\u2019s <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/the-benefits-of-the-thought-challenge-putting-thoughts-on-trial\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">putting the thoughts of trial<\/a><\/span>, where we weight the objective evidence for and against the unwanted <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/intrusive-thoughts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">intrusive thoughts<\/a><\/span>, and there\u2019s <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/the-art-of-reframing-and-its-benefits-to-our-wellbeing\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">reframing<\/a><\/span>. <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/the-art-of-reframing-and-its-benefits-to-our-wellbeing\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Reframing<\/a><\/span> is where we look for a neutral or positive alternative to the thoughts.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Accepting-our-thoughts\"\/><strong>Accepting our thoughts<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>This is also a form of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/exposure-therapy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">exposure therapy<\/a><\/span>, because sometimes challenging our thoughts can make the unwanted <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/intrusive-thoughts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">intrusive thoughts<\/a><\/span> stronger. If that happens, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/acceptance-and-commitment-therapy-the-best-self-help-guide\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">accepting<\/a><\/span> the thoughts for what they are, and that they don\u2019t have power over us unless we give it too them, is another way to go.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>We sit with the thoughts and let them run there cause, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/acceptance-and-commitment-therapy-the-best-self-help-guide\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">accepting<\/a><\/span> them\u00a0 for what they are. Just thoughts. And that we\u2019re more than the sum of our thoughts.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Seek-professional-help\"\/><strong>Seek professional help<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h4>\n<p>If none of the above works, or we just need a little extra support to get through it all, then consider seeking help from a therapist. They can provide guidance and support in developing healthy <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/coping-strategies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">coping strategies<\/a><\/span>, replacing the safety behaviours. They can also help with us overcoming the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> and <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span> that under pins it all.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Cognitive behavioural therapy (<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/tests-and-treatments\/cognitive-behavioural-therapy-cbt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">CBT<\/a><\/span>) is a good form of therapy for this, as is <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/exposure-therapy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">exposure therapy<\/a><\/span>. These approaches can help us with addressing and gradually reducing reliance on safety behaviours, which is a key component of treatment for <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety disorders<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Summary\"\/>Summary<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Safety behaviours are the behaviours we develop that we think helps us with our <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> and <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fears<\/a><\/span>, and that\u2019s partly true. They can help with the short-term discomfort these cause. However, they also reinforce the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> and <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/worrying-isnt-a-form-of-protection-its-just-fear\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fears<\/a><\/span> each time we use them, making our long term recovery much harder.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>One of the best approaches to tackle these kinds of issues is to focus on the safety behaviours, as they are whats maintaining the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/tag\/anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety<\/a><\/span> and <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/unwantedlife.me\/fear-of-going-somewhere-new\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a><\/span> in the first place.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Remember, overcoming safety behaviours is going to take time and effort. How much time and effort will vary person to person, so be patient, and celebrate any and all progress. Self-help options, like those listed in the article are a good starting point, but they don\u2019t have to be the only option, so don\u2019t hesitate to seek help when needed.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>As always, leave your feedback in the comments section below. Also, please share your experiences with safety behaviours in the comments section below. Don\u2019t forget, if you want to stay up-to-date with my blog, you can sign up for my newsletter below. Alternatively, click the red bell icon in the bottom right corner to get push notifications for new articles.<\/p>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p>Lastly, if you\u2019d like to support my blog, please find the PayPal and Ko-fi donation payment options below. Until next time, <del>Un<\/del>wanted Life readers.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"References\"\/>References<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h6>\u00a0<\/h6>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"Evans\">Evans, R., Chiu, K., Clark, D. M., Waite, P., &amp; Leigh, E. (2021). Safety behaviours in social anxiety: An examination across adolescence.\u00a0<em>Behaviour Research and Therapy<\/em>,\u00a0<em>144<\/em>, 103931. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC7611485\/pdf\/EMS131720.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#ff0000\" class=\"has-inline-color\">https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC7611485\/pdf\/EMS131720.pdf<\/mark><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"Goodson\">Goodson, J. T., Patel, T. A., Zech, J. M., Sala, M. C., &amp; Cougle, J. R. (2026). The standalone effect of safety behavior manipulations: A systematic review and meta-analysis.\u00a0<em>Clinical Psychology Review<\/em>, 102703. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC12997458\/pdf\/nihms-2149736.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#ff0000\" class=\"has-inline-color\">https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC12997458\/pdf\/nihms-2149736.pdf<\/mark><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"Meyer\">Meyer, J. M., Kirk, A., Arch, J. J., Kelly, P. J., &amp; Deacon, B. J. (2019). Beliefs about safety behaviours in the prediction of safety behaviour use.\u00a0<em>Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapy<\/em>,\u00a0<em>47<\/em>(6), 631-644. 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