In fresh grief, my heart was so broken that often I could only utter short prayers. These ten simple prayers for the grieving heart seemed to be on repeat.<\/p>\n
These are the prayers said through tears or even when we have no words. And because these short prayers are rooted in Scripture, they are prayers God will always answer.<\/p>\n
Long prayers are not more powerful. Our honest prayers matter because of who we\u2019re praying to. When sorrow is heavy or your faith feels fragile, offer one of these short, simple prayers.<\/p>\n 1. Help, Lord.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cGod is our\u00a0refuge and strength, a very\u00a0present help in\u00a0trouble.\u201d Psalm 46:1 (ESV)<\/a><\/p>\n I\u2019ve prayed this more times than I can count. I\u2019ll never forget the morning I prayed this before making a difficult business phone call. God\u2019s help was practical as he ordered my thoughts of what to say in that call and the call went better than I could ever have imagined. God is a help in every way we need him. When we cry out to him, he will answer.<\/p>\n 2. Please be near.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cThe\u00a0Lord\u00a0is near to\u00a0the brokenhearted and saves\u00a0the crushed in spirit.\u201d Psalm 34:18 (ESV)<\/a><\/p>\n Scripture tells us God is close to those who are grieving, but sometimes we don\u2019t feel his presence. If God feels distant, I\u2019ve found turning down the noise of the world, like social media or the 24-hour news pundits, and getting into God\u2019s Word helps me sense his presence. James 4:8 promises that when we draw near to God, he will draw near to us.<\/p>\n 3. Calm my heart.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cDo not be anxious about anything,\u00a0but in everything by prayer and supplication\u00a0with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And\u00a0the peace of God,\u00a0which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.\u201d Philippians 4:6-7 (ESV)<\/a><\/p>\n When anxiety begins to take hold, this is a promise we can put into practice. This verse tells us to pray or ask with thanksgiving. God isn\u2019t asking us to thank him for<\/em> the pain, but to thank him in<\/em> the pain. Because there is always, always something we can thank God for. As we pray with gratitude, God\u2019s promised peace will blanket our heart and mind in peace.<\/p>\n 4. Show me what to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cIf any of you lacks wisdom,\u00a0let him ask God,\u00a0who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.\u201d James 1:5 (ESV)<\/a><\/p>\n When I became a widow and single mom to seven children, I no longer had my husband to help with decisions. I could have phoned a friend or looked to a counselor, but I learned to go to God first. I\u2019ve found that when I ask God for wisdom and then tune my heart to receive it, God has given it generously.<\/p>\n 5. Heal my pain.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cHe heals\u00a0the brokenhearted and\u00a0binds up their wounds.\u201d Psalm 147:3 (ESV)<\/a><\/p>\n It\u2019s not time that heals all wounds, but God who over time who heals our wounds. He\u2019s a God of all comfort who comforts us<\/a> in every affliction. He sustains us when the pain feels unbearable. And he hears every lament as we process the hard emotions and questions of grief. As God heals our broken heart, the loss becomes softer and less raw. But our full healing will not come until heaven when God wipes away every tear and brings us to a place with no more mourning or sorrow or death.<\/p>\n 6. Fight for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0\u201cThe\u00a0Lord\u00a0will fight for you, and you have only\u00a0to be silent.\u201d Exodus 14:14<\/a><\/p>\n This verse was given to Israel in a specific situation, but God has not changed. He is still God who fights for us. First John reminds us that greater is he who is in us than he who is in the world. Romans 8 declares that because God is for us, no one can stand against us. And Ephesians 6 describes the spiritual armor we have to overcome every scheme of the enemy. God is greater than anything or anyone that comes against us and through him, we fight from victory.<\/p>\n 7. Give me your peace.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cYou keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.\u201d Isaiah 26:3 (ESV)<\/a><\/p>\n Corrie ten Boom said, \u201cIf you look at the world, you\u2019ll be distressed. If you look within, you\u2019ll be depressed. But if you look at Christ, you\u2019ll be at rest.\u201d We fix our eyes on God each time we spend time in his Word, praise him through song, sit under Biblical teaching, and go to him in prayer. Fixing our mind on God doesn\u2019t erase our very real ache, but reminds us of God\u2019s faithful character as he walks with us in it.<\/p>\n 8. Help me rest.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cCome to\u00a0me, all who labor and are\u00a0heavy laden, and I will give you rest.\u201d Matthew 11:28 (ESV)<\/a><\/p>\n Grief fatigue is real. It taxes us mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I remember waking up tired before my day even started. Grief exhaustion isn\u2019t solved simply with more sleep. Jesus invites us to come to him, unburden our weary heart, and find full rest. While good sleep is crucial, we need to address all seven kinds of rest we need in grief.<\/a><\/p>\n 9. Help my unbelief.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cImmediately the father of the child cried outand said, \u2018I believe;\u00a0help my unbelief!\u2019\u201d Mark 9:24 (ESV)<\/a><\/p>\n Mark 9 tells of a father who brought his mute, demon-possessed son to Jesus, imploring that if Jesus could help, then to please have compassion and heal him. Jesus immediately responded that if he could was unquestionable because all things are possible for the one who believes. \u201cI believe!\u201d the father answered and then, \u201cHelp my unbelief.\u201d What an honest prayer that God will answer.<\/p>\n 10. Restore me.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cRestore our fortunes, Lord, like streams in the Negev. Those who sow with tears will reap\u00a0with songs of joy. Those who go out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with them.\u201d Psalm 126:5-6 (ESV)<\/a><\/p>\n This isn\u2019t a prayer for wealth, but a prayer for God to lead Israel out of captivity and back to the spiritual relationship where God alone was worshipped bringing wholeness and joy. The brokenness of loss reveals idols we\u2019ve set up. As long as we\u2019re broken open, we can chisel out false idols and let God restore the intimacy he\u2019s intended all along. When we look to God alone, God will bring us to a place of wholeness and joy.<\/p>\n![\"Woman](\"https:\/\/lisaappelo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/10-simple-prayers-for-the-grieving-heart-tiny.jpg\")
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