{"id":7061012,"date":"2026-09-19T11:21:04","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T11:21:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/when-gratitude-becomes-expressive-mike-vardy\/"},"modified":"2026-09-19T11:21:04","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T11:21:04","slug":"when-gratitude-becomes-expressive-mike-vardy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7061012","title":{"rendered":"When Gratitude Becomes Expressive &#8211; Mike Vardy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"text\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most of us experience gratitude internally. We feel thankful, appreciative, even deeply moved\u2014but we stop there. What happens when gratitude doesn\u2019t stay private?<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That question has been on my mind ever since I started writing letters to people who shaped my thinking, my work, and my life. Not thank-you notes. Letters. The kind that arrive unexpectedly and say, <em>\u201cYou mattered to me\u2014and here\u2019s why.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In my conversation with Joel Zuckerman, author of <em><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4t6nnK7\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener sponsored nofollow\">Gratitude Tiger<\/a><\/em>, we explored what he calls <em>expressive gratitude<\/em>. Unlike journaling\u2014which is reflective and inward\u2014expressive gratitude turns our attention outward. It requires time, thought, and a willingness to be a little vulnerable.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/share.transistor.fm\/e\/5a5aa9e3\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What struck me most wasn\u2019t the number of letters Joel has written (over 300), but the intention behind them. He doesn\u2019t write for applause or acknowledgment. He writes because the act itself creates <a href=\"https:\/\/mikevardy.com\/what-time-reveals\/\" type=\"post\" id=\"786264\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">meaning<\/a>. The reward isn\u2019t just in the response\u2014it\u2019s in the doing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don\u2019t need to write hundreds of letters. You don\u2019t even need to write one every month. You just need to start with one person who comes to mind immediately. If someone\u2019s name surfaced while reading this, that might be your signal.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most of us experience gratitude internally. We feel thankful, appreciative, even deeply moved\u2014but we stop there. What happens when gratitude doesn\u2019t stay private? That question has been on my mind ever since I started writing letters to people who shaped my thinking, my work, and my life. Not thank-you notes. Letters. 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