{"id":7056841,"date":"2026-09-04T09:21:19","date_gmt":"2026-09-04T09:21:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/if-women-are-called-gold-diggers-what-about-men-who-enjoy-their-fellow-mens-wealth-mary-njoku\/"},"modified":"2026-09-04T09:21:19","modified_gmt":"2026-09-04T09:21:19","slug":"if-women-are-called-gold-diggers-what-about-men-who-enjoy-their-fellow-mens-wealth-mary-njoku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7056841","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf Women Are Called Gold Diggers, What About Men Who Enjoy Their Fellow Men\u2019s Wealth?\u201d- Mary Njoku"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Mary Njoku, a Nollywood actress and filmmaker, has raised a discussion about the term \u201cgold digger\u201d used for women benefiting from wealthy men.<\/li>\n<li>She questions the societal double standard regarding labels, asking what men should be called when they receive financial or material benefits from women.<\/li>\n<li>Njoku\u2019s comments highlight the need for a more balanced perspective on gender roles and financial relationships.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"435\" src=\"https:\/\/www.gistlover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Mary-1024x435.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-372932\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.gistlover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Mary-1024x435.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.gistlover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Mary-150x64.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.gistlover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Mary-300x128.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.gistlover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Mary-767x326.jpg 767w, https:\/\/www.gistlover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Mary.jpg 1030w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nollywood actress and filmmaker <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gistlover.com\/encouragement-can-sometimes-feel-like-pressure-mary-njoku-warns\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"316561\">Mary Njoku<\/a> has sparked a conversation online after questioning the way society labels women who benefit from wealthy men as \u201cgold diggers.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The actress wondered what men should be called when they also enjoy financial or material benefits from women, pointing out what she described as a clear double standard in how such situations are viewed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">According to Mary, both men and women naturally gravitate towards people who possess value, whether financially, socially or otherwise. However, she questioned why women are often judged harshly when they benefit from a man\u2019s wealth, while men in similar situations may not receive the same label.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her remarks have since stirred discussions among social media users, with many weighing in on societal expectations surrounding relationships, money and gender.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her words\u2026<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cIf benefiting from a wealthy person\u2019s generosity makes a woman a gold digger, what exactly do we call the 17 men eating his food, wearing what he bought, enjoying his money and calling themselves his boys?<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>The truth is, people gravitate towards value. Men do it. Women do it. Friends do it. Relatives do it. Employees do it. Everyone wants to be close to something that makes life better.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>The double standard isn\u2019t that people love money.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>It\u2019s that when men benefit from proximity to wealth, we give the behaviour a respectable name. When women do the same thing, we give it a dirty one.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Everyone loves gold.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>The difference is in what we choose to call the people standing close to it\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">See post below:<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed aligncenter is-type-rich is-provider-instagram wp-block-embed-instagram\"\/>\n<p><!-- CONTENT END 1 --><\/p><\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mary Njoku, a Nollywood actress and filmmaker, has raised a discussion about the term \u201cgold digger\u201d used for women benefiting from wealthy men. 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