{"id":7029189,"date":"2026-08-05T22:47:28","date_gmt":"2026-08-05T22:47:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/it-turns-out-resistance-to-your-change-initiative-is-mostly-a-good-sign\/"},"modified":"2026-08-05T22:47:28","modified_gmt":"2026-08-05T22:47:28","slug":"it-turns-out-resistance-to-your-change-initiative-is-mostly-a-good-sign","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7029189","title":{"rendered":"It turns out, resistance to your change initiative is (mostly) a good sign"},"content":{"rendered":"


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Excerpted from my latest book: Wake-Up Calls for Managers: Insights to Sharpen Focus and Elevate Results<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

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Are you close to succeeding with your change initiative?<\/h2>\n

A mentor would regularly offer: \u201cArt, if you\u2019re getting flak, you\u2019re close to the target.\u201d While always a sucker for good air force analogies, the flak or resistance didn\u2019t feel good. It turns out, my mentor was right. Here\u2019s how to better leverage the resistance or flak, as my mentor described it, as part of leading successful change initiatives.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the flak derail your transformation initiative. Instead, dive in to better understand the core of any resistance and strive to build your coalition. Transformation initiatives succeed on the strength of relationships, not ideas.<\/p>\n

A guest speaker in one of my recent workshops was asked how to know when you\u2019re on the right track leading a transformation initiative. His answer, offered with a laugh, \u201cExpect cynicism followed by criticism,\u201d<\/em> is more truthful than humorous.<\/p>\n

In coaching senior leaders striving to lead organizational change, the cynicism, criticism, and flak can be withering, raising self-doubt and leading some to give up or scale back their ideas. My suggested reframe is to use this negativity as a barometer, then double down on engaging the critics in constructive dialogue around interests, not positions. What you uncover will help build a broader coalition for support or assess whether your initiative may run into an immovable object.<\/p>\n

8 reasons why many are cynical and critical of your change initiative<\/h2>\n
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  1. Jealousy\u2014they wish they had identified the opportunity before you.<\/li>\n
  2. Competition\u2014they see this as a threat to their power and an opportunity for you to grow yours.<\/li>\n
  3. Trespassing\u2014you\u2019re stepping all over something they view as theirs.<\/li>\n
  4. Definition\u2014They don\u2019t understand the problem you are trying to solve.<\/li>\n
  5. Exhaustion\u2014it\u2019s one more thing they have to find a way to support on top of an overwhelming number of initiatives they or their teams are involved in helping.<\/li>\n
  6. Prioritization\u2014they perceive your issue as less important than other initiatives struggling for resources.<\/li>\n
  7. \u201cIt\u2019s Not Broke-ism\u201d Their view on what you are trying to change or do is that the status quo is just fine.<\/li>\n
  8. Expertise\u2014they view themselves as stakeholders in this initiative and weren\u2019t consulted.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    One or more of these (or other flavors of the above) show up in the early stages of every transformation initiative. Savvy operators view the reactions as a barometer, not a verdict, and redouble their efforts to engage and, as needed, adjust their approach.<\/p>\n

    6 Ideas to neutralize the flak (reduce the resistance)<\/h2>\n
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    1. Engage with your cynical and critical colleagues to better understand their actual objections.<\/strong> While not all will be forthcoming with their real reasons for objecting to your initiative, proper questioning will help you tune in to their thinking.<\/li>\n
    2. Accept that some individuals lead with resisting new ideas,<\/strong> and it\u2019s your challenge to understand the resistance and strive to at least get them to listen. Have empathy with their situation and objections. Their resistance may be less about you and your initiative and more about them and their workload or stress level.<\/li>\n
    3. Clarify the problem you are striving to solve<\/strong>. A great deal of personal resistance stems from ambiguity over the real problem you are trying to remedy. Work hard to clarify and communicate this issue and ask others for their views on it.<\/li>\n
    4. Ask for their opinion.<\/strong> Try: \u201cHere\u2019s the problem I see here. What\u2019s your view on this?\u201d And \u201cIf you were trying to remedy this situation, how might you solve it?\u201d<\/li>\n
    5. Ask for their help or support.<\/strong> If you misread the stakeholder map and didn\u2019t involve someone who views this as important, make amends and ask for help.<\/li>\n
    6. Engage your sponsor.<\/strong> If the initiative is significant or strategic, it\u2019s best to have an executive sponsor involved and ready to help defend or knock down walls. Leverage your sponsor.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      And one cautionary tale. You will run into individuals who want you to expand the scope or scale of your initiative. In the words of my colleague, \u201cScale is the enemy of transformation in the early stages.\u201d Resist this tradeoff to gain support. Your goal early in the process is to experiment and learn. Don\u2019t introduce complexity by expanding scope or scale prematurely.<\/p>\n

      The bottom line<\/h2>\n

      Don\u2019t let the flak derail your transformation initiative. Instead, dive in to understand the core of any resistance better and strive to build your coalition. Transformation initiatives succeed on the strength of relationships, not ideas.<\/p>\n

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