{"id":7027396,"date":"2026-08-04T20:49:06","date_gmt":"2026-08-04T20:49:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/how-do-you-clear-relationships-anxiety-joy-uchennaya\/"},"modified":"2026-08-04T20:49:06","modified_gmt":"2026-08-04T20:49:06","slug":"how-do-you-clear-relationships-anxiety-joy-uchennaya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7027396","title":{"rendered":"How Do You Clear Relationships Anxiety? \u2013 JOY UCHENNAYA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I do not have to be an authority in relationships, to know that one of the ways to know who you should be with, is by knowing exactly who you are.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you know the kind of relationship you want, the kind of marriage you want, it is easier to know who you should walk with. It is easy for you to realize early enough if someone is not who you should be walking or building.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So maybe there should be a shift in prayer. You can pray to God to show you exactly who you are, the kind of relationship and marriage God wants for you. So you can throw confusion away and be more focused.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Who you are determines who should walk with you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So maybe it\u2019s not that you haven\u2019t found love, or you are confused about who should be, it\u2019s just that you haven\u2019t found yourself yet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And when you don\u2019t know who you are, everybody looks like a possibility. And that is when confusion sets in.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But when you do know who you are, clarity becomes your filter.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you know these things, you stop entertaining what contradicts them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These might be important, but don\u2019t just focus on questions like, do they like me? Are they attractive? Do we have chemistry? Does this feel good?<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Also ask questions like, does this align with who I am growing to become?<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And before you ask the question above, you need to know who you are growing to become. And to know that, you need to ask yourself: <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><code>\u2022 What kind of life gives you peace. \u2022 What kind of environment drains you. \u2022 What values are non-negotiable. \u2022 What you will never shrink to accommodate. \u2022 What your purpose requires.<\/code><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Can you fulfill purpose with that person? Is it easier with that person?<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Is his or her vision something you can stand with him or her and pursue?<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Imagine your life as a road.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not everyone is built for your road.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That doesn\u2019t make them wrong.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It just makes them incompatible.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you don\u2019t know your road, you let anyone hop in.<br \/>When you do know it, you choose carefully who gets a seat.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I also need to remind you that the anxiety you feel when you think about your relationships, is not anxiety.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You just don\u2019t trust yourself to choose correctly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And do you know why you don\u2019t trust yourself?<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That lack of trust comes from not knowing your own:<br \/>\u2022 Standards<br \/>\u2022 Triggers<br \/>\u2022 Emotional needs<br \/>\u2022 Long-term vision<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you trust yourself enough to choose, the anxiety disappears.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And when you know who you are, you will always recognize who can walk that road with you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not everyone is meant to travel with you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But the right one will not feel like confusion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>They will feel like peace.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Also, when you know who you are and the kind of relationship and marriage God wants you to have, you can pray that God sends those kind of people to you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can then pray about them and choose.<\/p>\n<p><span id=\"wordads-inline-marker\" style=\"display: none;\"\/><\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I do not have to be an authority in relationships, to know that one of the ways to know who you should be with, is by knowing exactly who you are. When you know the kind of relationship you want, the kind of marriage you want, it is easier to know who you should walk [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7027397,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[97618,106552,99164,100502,98149,98236],"tags":[2222,2312,4678,7613,161598],"dealstore":[],"offerexpiration":[],"class_list":["post-7027396","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","category-christian-blogger","category-faith","category-god","category-love","category-relationships","tag-anxiety","tag-clear","tag-joy","tag-relationships","tag-uchennaya"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How Do You Clear Relationships Anxiety? \u2013 JOY UCHENNAYA - Som2ny Network<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=7027396\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"How Do You Clear Relationships Anxiety? \u2013 JOY UCHENNAYA - Som2ny Network\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I do not have to be an authority in relationships, to know that one of the ways to know who you should be with, is by knowing exactly who you are. 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