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You look out the window of your home each night after dinner, staring across the street at your neighbors. You long for their fancy cars, their manicured lawns, and even the vacations they seem to take several times a year.
You\u2019re not alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I often look out my window, too \u2014 staring at the gorgeous homes and cars \u2014 wondering how they manage to pay for them. After all, we live in the same neighborhood, our kids go to the same schools, and their salaries aren\u2019t that much more than ours.<\/p>\n

There are several reasons that our neighbors can afford so many of the things we would love to have,<\/strong> but could never fathom splurging on:<\/strong>
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1. Perception Is Everything<\/h3>\n

Your perception may be skewed. You see fancy cars in the driveway, and you can almost feel the trim lawns under your toes. You watch work crews constantly going in and out as they work on awesome remodeling projects inside. Yet, none of this means that your neighbors are wealthier than you are.<\/p>\n

Just because YOU see them as more affluent doesn\u2019t mean they ARE.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re only able to see the surface of their spending; you have no idea what\u2019s happening underneath.<\/p>\n

2. Allocation Is Essential<\/h3>\n

While you choose to consistently save money for your kids\u2019 education<\/a>, and for your retirement<\/a>, they could be spending these \u201cexcess funds\u201d on their cars and homes. They might be making the shallow choice to spend their money on what people can see, while you\u2019re spending your money on the life you want to live, both today and tomorrow<\/strong>. You\u2019ve chosen to pay for peace of mind.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s how your neighbors allocate their income that makes them seem richer than they are.<\/p>\n

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3. Perks Matter<\/h3>\n

While your neighbors\u2019 salaries might be slightly higher than yours, it likely isn\u2019t enough to justify their massive leap in spending. Fringe benefits, however, can greatly widen the gap.<\/strong> They could be receiving perks like cars, phones, or laptops; these can give the recipient an amazing leg up when it comes to freeing money for other pleasures.<\/p>\n

4. Luxuries of the Mature<\/h3>\n

As families mature, houses get paid off and savings grow. Even if your children attend the same school, their children are older, and the adults have a few years on you, as well. They very well could have spent those few extra years making payments on their house and putting money in the bank<\/strong> \u2014 giving them a huge advantage. Just imagine how much more financial freedom you would have if you didn\u2019t have to manage your monthly mortgage<\/a>.<\/p>\n

5. Their Lives Might Be Plastic<\/h3>\n

Your neighbors might worship the power of the plastic<\/strong>. While you\u2019re smart enough to understand the headaches of undisciplined credit, your neighbors might be living carelessly \u2014 buying short-term luxury today in exchange for a meager tomorrow.<\/p>\n

6. They Know Where to Find Deals<\/h3>\n

I consider myself a connoisseur when it comes to finding great deals on groceries<\/a> and kids clothing<\/a>. Perhaps your neighbors also know something about finding deals on the things they need<\/strong>, which frees up more money for things they want.<\/p>\n

7. They Pay for Their Immediate Wants First<\/h3>\n

Your neighbors could also have more money than you do because they prioritize differently<\/strong>, and pay for projects and luxuries from their savings.<\/p>\n

While my neighbors may or may not make more money than me, I don\u2019t let it influence the way that I live.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I spend money in the way that\u2019s most important for my family and me \u2014 both for a better, more comfortable today, and for a brighter tomorrow.<\/p>\n

As \u201cThe Millionaire Next Door\u201d and \u201cRich Dad, Poor Dad\u201d point out, those who use their money for homes, cars, and clothes are spending on material items and living on \u201crented\u201d lifestyles. Instead of building assets, these people are living on liabilities, and that can be a dangerous mindset.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to live like a king today if it means you\u2019re going to live like a pauper tomorrow.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what the Jones\u2019 are doing. Not now, or ever.<\/strong> Save where you can, spend when you need to, and live a life you want<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In The Meantime, Here\u2019s How to Feel Richer<\/h2>\n

Think about wealth for a second. Is it really just about money? Or are there other factors involved?<\/p>\n

What Makes Me Feel Rich<\/h3>\n

Even though I\u2019m not what many people would consider \u201crich\u201d in terms of income, I do feel rich in a number of ways. Some of the things that help me feel rich include:<\/p>\n

I have a flexible job:<\/strong> It\u2019s amazing the feeling you get from having a flexible job. Whether you have flexible hours at a job outside the home, or whether you have your own business and can choose some aspects of your job, there is a certain richness in being able to choose your hours, how long you work, and who you work for.<\/p>\n

Being able to indulge in small treats:<\/strong> One of the things I like is being able to indulge in small treats. A matinee at the movies, a new book, or dinner out is a treat that I like to indulge in. As long as I have the resources to indulge occasionally, without worrying that it will ruin my finances, I feel rich.<\/p>\n

Helping others:<\/strong> Many of us can feel rich when we help others. Whether we give our time to help someone who needs our aid, or whether we write a check to a charity, or donate canned goods to the food bank, or give blood, doing good can be a real boost. It reminds us of how much we have, and what we have to give.<\/p>\n

Time to do what I want:<\/strong> Lately, things have been so crazy that I haven\u2019t had time to practice music, or engage in activities with my family. I\u2019ve made a little extra money, but I somehow feel poorer. We all like to have time to do something we enjoy, and when I\u2019m so hurried I don\u2019t have time to read a book at lunch, or make cookies with my son, I feel the lack. So, freeing up more time is a definite priority for me.<\/p>\n

In so many cases, \u201crich\u201d is a state of mind. It depends on how you view your life, and what you can do. While it\u2019s true that, to a certain extent, money is necessary in order to live, and while money can make living more pleasant, money isn\u2019t the only thing that makes one \u201crich.\u201d Many people cite family, friends, health, hobbies and other items as things that make them feel rich. Focusing only on a dollar amount doesn\u2019t always lead to satisfaction with your finances. Managing my finances so that my needs are taken care of, and some of my wants can be enjoyed, is my definition of \u201crich.\u201d<\/p>\n

What\u2019s your definition of \u201crich\u201d?<\/p>\n

Tagged as: Lifestyle<\/a>, Money Beliefs<\/a>, Money Management<\/a>, Money Stories<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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