{"id":334241,"date":"2025-12-08T04:43:32","date_gmt":"2025-12-08T04:43:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/fight-your-sadness-my-blog\/"},"modified":"2025-12-08T04:43:32","modified_gmt":"2025-12-08T04:43:32","slug":"fight-your-sadness-my-blog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=334241","title":{"rendered":"Fight your sadness | My blog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Last days have been hard for me.<br \/>\nAs anybody, when threats, bad news, and difficulties add up, my inner joy and energy tends to vanish.<br \/>\nWhen this state of mind, lasts it can even lead to depression.<br \/>\nAnd even if I didn\u2019t reach that point, I must honestly admit that I was no more the optimistic, energetic man I like to be.<br \/>\nI spent too much time in this mood, that\u2019s why I\u2019d like to share what I did to recover, hoping that it will speed up <em>your<\/em> recovery.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"observation\">Observation<\/h2>\n<p>Before any action you need awareness.<br \/>\nSo if you feel sad, pessimistic and morose, like I did.<br \/>\nIt should ring the bell: You have to do something, because the more you stay in this state of mind the more depressed you\u2019ll get.<br \/>\nAnd you have to do it promptly.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"vicious-circle\">Vicious circle<\/h2>\n<p>You have to act quickly, because you\u2019re in a vicious circle.<br \/>\nWhen you\u2019re sad, it\u2019s hard to enjoy all the pleasant things of your life, that makes you even more sad.<br \/>\nWhen you\u2019re tired, it\u2019s hard to take the required action, that makes the things worse, and make you more tired.<br \/>\nWhen you\u2019re morose, everything seems worse than it is and guess what? That will make you more morose.<br \/>\nThat\u2019s the vicious circle that will make you more and more sad and will ultimately lead you to depression.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"breaking-the-circle\">Breaking the circle<\/h2>\n<p>If you can\u2019t expect no help from someone else, let me give you <em>a<\/em> way to break the circle.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s not an easy one and but you can do it without any doubt.<br \/>\nAll you have to do, is to take action.<br \/>\nIt doesn\u2019t require you to believe, understand or whatever.<br \/>\nDecide to <em>do<\/em> something to get better.<\/p>\n<p>As I\u2019m someone rather radical, I choose to do fight my physical fatigue the most extreme way I could find: I did 100 burpees.<br \/>\nThe idea was that If I could manage to do it whatever the cost, I could go through anything needed to get better.<br \/>\nSo I did it (in fact I choose to do 105, just do more than I did when I was in good shape) and the result was immediate.<br \/>\nMy problems were still there, but my fatigue disappeared, I felt more energetic and everything became manageable.<br \/>\n(heck if I could do 100 burpees while so tired, what could stop me now I felt better)<br \/>\nMore important, I had a proof that my fatigue\/sadness was all in my head, and that <em>I<\/em> could improve it almost instantly.<br \/>\nI could do <em>one step<\/em> toward the recovery goal.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s as simple as that, take one tangible step!<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"consistency\">Consistency<\/h2>\n<p>Ok now, that you know that you can do this simple step.<br \/>\nMake another one, and another one, and another one\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Forget about your sadness, fatigue or the causes.<br \/>\nFocus on the action, that make your better, more joyful, more rested, optimistic.<br \/>\nAnything that will make you realize that <em>you<\/em> can improve your state, one step at a time.<br \/>\nFocus on the action and all the benefits that come with it (even if it\u2019s only the fact that you manage to do it)<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"understand\">Understand<\/h2>\n<p>I won\u2019t say that you\u2019re the only cause of your sufferings.<br \/>\n(That might sound too harsh for some of you)<br \/>\nBut let me tell you something: if we can\u2019t choose what the life throw at us, we can choose the way\/degree it affects us.<br \/>\nEvery little step, proves it: we <em>can<\/em> change our feeling.<br \/>\nAnd even if it\u2019s seem futile to you, it\u2019s not.<br \/>\nIf a little action make you feel only 1% slightly better, that only means that you\u2019ll need 100.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s up to you to choose the number steps you\u2019re accepting to take.<br \/>\nSo it\u2019s up to your to choose the level of improvement you\u2019re willing to reach.<\/p>\n<p>So yes, ultimately you can choose the way\/degree things affect you.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"adapt\">Adapt<\/h2>\n<p>Of course putting your body to extreme stress is probably not the best way for <em>you<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Depending on your energy do whatever you can:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Make your bed<\/li>\n<li>Have a walk<\/li>\n<li><em>Enjoy<\/em> a good meal<\/li>\n<li>Meet a Friend<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Do whatever works for you.<br \/>\nEven if it\u2019s quitting your bed to enjoy a bath.<br \/>\nAs long as it\u2019s an effort to you and you manage to do it, you\u2019ve made a step that you can enjoy.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"conclusion\">Conclusion<\/h2>\n<p>I hope you\u2019ll find some hints in this article to recover more quickly.<br \/>\nDon\u2019t hesitate to ask for help to the people you love.<br \/>\nDon\u2019t hesitate to ask me for any clarification that could help.<br \/>\nAnd remember that whatever the trouble you\u2019re going through, you can use it to improve.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last days have been hard for me. 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