{"id":334038,"date":"2025-12-08T02:00:54","date_gmt":"2025-12-08T02:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/a-short-history-of-correspondence-with-my-family\/"},"modified":"2025-12-08T02:00:54","modified_gmt":"2025-12-08T02:00:54","slug":"a-short-history-of-correspondence-with-my-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=334038","title":{"rendered":"A short history of correspondence with my family\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"


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When I was (much) younger, messages to my family were sent on something that looked like this, an aerogramme. They were designed to be lightweight (to keep the delivery cost down) and easy to use – you folded over the gummed, protruding edges to seal it closed. But, with telephone calls expensive, and even middle class Indian homes not always connected to the telephone, they were how you kept the family in touch with what you were doing.<\/p>\n

Of course, the advent of the internet meant that aerogrammes were increasingly irrelevant, and it appears that the Royal Mail gave them up in 2012. I admit that I hadn\u2019t noticed.<\/p>\n

In truth, I am at best an erratic correspondent, even with e-mail and social media. I mark family birthdays when they are noted by others on the family WhatsApp groups – there\u2019s one for the Valladares\u2019s and another for the cousins and second cousins – and I\u2019ll occasionally exchange messages for significant events, but it\u2019s a bit haphazard.<\/p>\n

Ros encourages me, but she knows that it\u2019s a bit of an uphill battle and I sense that her expectations are low that I will actually deal with the matter in good time. This year is a bit different though.<\/p>\n

Inspired by the family gathering earlier this month, and aided by Ros\u2019s prescience in purchasing a goodly supply of charity Christmas cards, I have handwritten seventeen cards and matching envelopes, ready to be posted to Canada, India, New Zealand and the United States, one for every cousin and second cousin (and their families) on my father\u2019s side, plus the surviving members of my father\u2019s generation – and there aren\u2019t many of them left, sadly.<\/p>\n

It may seem a little sentimental, and maybe it is, but seeing so many of my family up close and personal did bring back some memories. And nothing says that they matter as much as a handwritten card with a brief but heartfelt message. I now also have a full set of addresses for the first time in a long time, which means that I have no excuse not to repeat the process next year.<\/p>\n

I will say this though, it\u2019s not a cheap thing to do at \u00a33.40 per card, and you can quite see why people increasingly revert to e-mail these days.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not expecting anything like a full set in reply. After all, most people don\u2019t have Ros to organise them, and life is hectic and complex. But I will have a warm sense of satisfaction that I have reminded my family that I care about them enough to wish them a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, wherever they may be.<\/p>\n

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