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You know her. She\u2019s the one who needs exactly 47 minutes of complete silence after the kids go to bed. The one who hears every noise in a five-mile radius. The one whose nervous system has been in fight-or-flight mode since approximately March 2020 and never quite recovered.<\/p>\n
She\u2019s worn out, talked out, and one unanswered email away from faking her own death. The words \u201ctouched out\u201d and \u201coverstimulated\u201d have become her entire personality, and honestly? Valid.<\/p>\n
This gift guide is for her\u2014the mom who needs the world to be quieter, softer, and a little less\u2026 much. These are gifts that whisper instead of shout, that create calm instead of chaos, and that say \u201cwe see you, and we\u2019re sorry your nervous system is just raw-dogging life right now.\u201d<\/p>\n
Think: noise-canceling everything, textures that don\u2019t make her want to scream, and anything that helps her regulate without requiring her to do more work. Because she\u2019s done enough work. She deserves to just\u2026 be.<\/p>\n
Looking for more gift ideas? Check out all of our\u00a0holiday gift guides<\/a>!<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Coloready<\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $24.99<\/p>\n Phones down, paintbrushes up! For a cozy night in that\u2019s sure to lower cortisol, art is the answer. But instead of starting with a blank canvas, Coloready is bringing paint-by-number back with a design-forward approach that we\u2019re totally crushing on. Their freshly-released Birds book offers 30 avian portraits that aren\u2019t just fun to paint\u2013you\u2019ll\u00a0 actually display them with pride when you\u2019re done.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Flewd <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $10.95<\/p>\n A candlelit bath, but make it functional. The magnesium-infused bath soaks from Flewd are formulated with nootropics, microminerals and vitamins to tackle all flavors of overwhelm. From insomnia to anxiety, stress to sads, there\u2019s a Flewd for that. Just dump it in, fire up the playlist and literally soak it up. Prices start at $10.95 for a single soak.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n True Botanicals<\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $52<\/p>\n If her skincare routine is among the few moments of peace she can wrestle out of the day, may as well make it a full sensory experience. My pick in that case is the Ginger Turmeric Cleansing Balm from True Botanicals. The melty balm does an incredible job of dissolving make up and hydrating skin in these cold, dark months but equally important\u2013it smells sooo good. It\u2019s like a mini spa treatment she can indulge in every day.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n CAP Beauty <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $58<\/p>\n For the clean beauty mavens, the CAP Beauty Serotoner is a guaranteed slam dunk. Yes, it\u2019s a face mist, but IMO it\u2019s also a mental vacation in a bottle. Among a host of glorious botanicals which hydrate and soothe, the Cap Beauty Serotoner is infused with griffonia, a plant which is said to increase the \u201cfeel good\u201d hormone serotonin. I\u2019m not sure if that\u2019s what\u2019s happening when I spray it, but regardless, its coconut, neroli and rose scent is without a doubt one of the most divine things I\u2019ve ever smelled. It\u2019s transportive, glow-giving and calming for both skin and mood.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Saje <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $36<\/p>\n For the moments she thinks her head is going to explode literally or figuratively, this is the answer. Available in two sizes of roll on and a 1 oz. bottle for your diffuser, Saje Peppermint Halo is a long-time cult favorite. The unique blend of peppermint, rosemary, lavender is mixed with eucalyptus, vetiver and cajeput essential oil, each of which have shown to help reduce stress<\/a> and alleviate the pain of tension headaches. I keep mine on my desk and run a few swipes along my temples and down the sides of my neck for an instant refresh that\u2019s absolutely heavenly.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Neom <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $48<\/p>\n Oh, ho hum. Another candle. NOT SO FAST, MY FRIEND. This glass-jarred beauty from London-based Noem Wellbeing is not your average candle. Made with baobab, jojoba, rapeseed, soybean, sweet almond and cocoa seed butter oils as well as a gorgeous blend of natural essential oils, it\u2019s actually a soothing skin treatment that\u2019s pure bliss. Simply light it up, wait a bit and drizzle the warmed oil over any part of the body that needs a little bit of nourishing. From the sensation to the dreamy scent, it\u2019s the perfect way to prep for a good night\u2019s sleep. After all, life\u2019s too short to not be pampered with hot oil as frequently as possible.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Cozy Earth <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $198.40 Declared by my teenager as \u201cthe best blanket in the whole world\u201d which she intends to \u201ctake to college and literally everywhere I ever live,\u201d the Cozy Earth Double Bubble Cuddle Blanket is a worthy splurge. Also, she\u2019s right. (I worm my way under it when she drags it to the couch and full on steal it when she\u2019s at her dad\u2019s.) It\u2019s made of what I can only assume is the best faux chinchilla ever produced, incredibly plush and perhaps the softest thing I\u2019ve ever felt aside from puppy ears. It\u2019s not weighted but given the thickness and density, it\u2019s actually quite heavy and gives that calming effect the second you slip under it. (I recently fell asleep under it so hard that I actually forgot where I was when I woke up.) It\u2019s definitely a splurge but right now it\u2019s on sale for 20% off!<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Higherdose<\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $699<\/p>\n Confession: My ultimate evening in involves sweating in something that looks like a body bag. Whether I\u2019ve had a hard batch of workouts or simply need a dose of relaxation, I\u2019m fully committed to the sauna blanket lifestyle. My pick, the Hydragun\u2019s HeatPod Sauna Blanket 2 is incredibly toasty, heating up to 185 degrees with a smooth but hefty zipper and magnets at the top to keep the warmth inside. Between the heft of the blanket\u2013which is relaxing in and of itself\u2013and the sweat fest that happens in my 30ish minute session, it\u2019s become one of my favorite ways to wrap up the day.<\/p>\n My suggestion is to set it up on your bed with a show or podcast to sweat it out and simply tell the fam, \u201cSorry, can\u2019t help. I\u2019m in my sweat bag.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Pure Enrichment <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $99.99<\/p>\n A heated blanket can\u2019t fix everything, but it\u2019s a great cure for the chills, icy feet and general support when you simply cannot<\/em>. And while it\u2019s not typically a product that\u2019s known for its chic aesthetic, this one from Pure Enrichment is particularly stylish. It\u2019s plush AF, with sherpa on one side and fake fur on the other and so comfy the heat almost feels like a bonus. Six heat settings range from 105-140 degress and a generous 9-foot cord ensures no one has to make concessions about where they use it.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Pointe Studio <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $20<\/p>\n For the gal who\u2019s hitting that Pilates class so she doesn\u2019t hit her head against the wall, Pointe Studio\u2019s Sanity Not Vanity Crew Grip Socks nail the sentiment. (Also, as a Pilates instructor, I\u2019ll tell you they\u2019re actually the stickiest for the longest.)<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Infinity Pillow<\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $54<\/p>\n From train commutes to long haul flights, the versatile Huzi Infinity Pillow is the travel\u00a0 accessory she never knew she needed. The scarf-style design can be used in tons of different configurations to make her cozy in practically any scenario (window, aisle, face down on the seat back tray like she\u2019s in high school all over again) and even comes in handy when snuggling at home.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Anima Mundi <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $35<\/p>\n A glass of red wine does hit the spot sometimes, but it can also be a one-way ticket to Headacheville with a stop at Snooze City. Lately I\u2019ve been digging a dash of Anima Mundi\u2019s Euphoria Elixir with some seltzer and pomegranate juice as an end of day ritual that makes me feel a little bit witchy, a lot grounded. The heart-opening elixir features a variety of adaptogens and botanicals that have been used for centuries to help boost everything from immunity to circulation and bring that sense of calm connection I\u2019m actually craving.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Oceanfoam <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $68<\/p>\n Of all the at-home workout nonsense I\u2019ve invested in, the only thing that\u2019s never seen a speck of dust is my foam roller. Is that because I use it to work out at home? Absolutely not. No, this fella gets thrown on the floor and I drape myself over it like Our Lord and Savior himself, top edge crammed firmly against the base of my skull while my chest opens for the first time all damn day. It\u2019s not workout equipment. It\u2019s a tool for survival. (This one is the bees knees because that texture is amazing and p.s. it\u2019s made from algae.)<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Unbound <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $40<\/p>\n Ok, so maybe she\u2019s touched out in that \u201cmy toddler would live inside my mouth if I\u2019d let them\u201d kind of way, but hear me out. This little miracle worker is the kind of touching that brings calm, not crazy. (Ok, maybe a tad crazy but in a delightful way.) Unbound\u2019s latest, Dex, is the cutest little vibe that delivers a very<\/em> satisfying experience both solo and partnered. The compact wand is cleverly designed to keep the vibration in the head, not the handle which makes it a rare find. I will make only one suggestion. Be sure to keep it well hidden or risk a child surprising you with the most mortifying karaoke performance of all time.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Commbi <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $178<\/p>\n There are comfortable shoes, and then there\u2019s Commbi. The brilliant design is a little bit house slipper, a little bit out-of-the-house clog, all walking on clouds cozy. The truly genius feature, however? The modular footbed<\/a>. Shearling is the obvious go-to for winter, but she can keep these babies in rotation clear into soccer season with a simple swap. There\u2019s vegan leather, double memory foam terry cloth and even Sante Fe-inspired textile for a pop of color. Each one is developed in collaboration with podiatrists to ensure they\u2019re not just comfy but total optimal.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Go Ruck <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $89<\/p>\n Hot girl walks? Nope. Not in this day and age. We\u2019re out here doing Rage Woman Stomps, thank you. The music is loud, the pace is brisk and the accessories? 100% badass. I\u2019m talking GORUCK weighted vests, my friends. Co-founder and former CIA officer Emily McCarthy, designed the Spy Ruck specifically for women with balanced weight placement and a contoured silhouette that hugs you without suffocating. Just that little bit of extra weight levels up the intensity, turning a walk into a full body workout. And what\u2019s better for blowing off steam than working up a sweat while looking like a total badass? Nothing, I tell you. Nothing.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Loop <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $59.95<\/p>\n Motherhood is nothing if not overstimulating (to say the least.) Designed to reduce ambient noise by 20-26 dB, the soft silicone Loop Switch 2 Ear Plugs soften the noise around you just enough to drown out things like traffic, barking dogs, or that 90th episode of Blippy, but not so much you\u2019ll miss a kiddo who needs you in the middle of the night. Just turn the dial to shift between three different noise reduction levels as your day demands. They come in a handy little case as well!<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Calm<\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $16.99<\/p>\n It\u2019s true that in most cases, our phones don\u2019t help with overwhelm like, at all. But from sleep troubles to anxiety about *waves hands wildly at everything*,\u00a0<\/em>the Calm app can be a handy little tool. They\u2019ve got an extensive library of calming meditations, sleep stories read by soothing voices like Cillian Murphy and Levar Burton and even dreamy music and soundscapes. Just toss on a pair of noise-canceling headphones and drift away for a few precious moments.<\/p>\n Price is for monthly subscription.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Alice <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $59<\/p>\n If you aren\u2019t taking mushrooms yet, it\u2019s 2025. What are you waiting for? No, not the psychedelic kind (ok, yes, also those but let\u2019s keep that in the group chat)\u2013the functional kind. I\u2019ve tried a litany of teas, supplements and tinctures but the only kind I\u2019ve ever really enjoyed are the ones from Alice. Their zen-x mushroom chocolates (which honestly just taste like delicious dark chocolate) are formulated to bring down cortisol levels so you can just\u2026be. Not in a zoned out way, just kind of chill and grounded. And did I mention it\u2019s also chocolate? A win all the way around.<\/p>\n Price is for two tins.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Lisa Frank x Kitsch <\/p>\n \u2022<\/span><\/p>\n $22<\/p>\n Ok, so nothing about Lisa Frank\u2019s artwork is calming or soothing, but nostalgia is. (Seriously, even science says<\/a> it plays an important role in psychological resilience.) And if harkening back to a time of dolphin-emblazoned Trapper Keepers while scream-singing 4 Non Blondes is her happy place, this is the gift: The satin pillowcase of her 6th grade dreams.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n\n Calming gifts every mom can appreciate <\/h2>\n
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