{"id":305138,"date":"2025-11-20T02:38:25","date_gmt":"2025-11-20T02:38:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/what-28-years-later-can-tell-us-about-men-today\/"},"modified":"2025-11-20T02:38:25","modified_gmt":"2025-11-20T02:38:25","slug":"what-28-years-later-can-tell-us-about-men-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=305138","title":{"rendered":"What 28 Years Later Can Tell Us About Men Today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div data-adroot=\"true\">\n<p>Will it take a zombie apocalypse to fix masculinity? The thought occurred to me as I sat in a theater taking in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.inverse.com\/entertainment\/28-years-later-danny-boyle-aaron-taylor-johnson-jodie-comer-interview-iphone?utm_source=newsletter&amp;utm_medium=fatherly&amp;utm_campaign=29f62482dc&amp;via_email=*|EMAIL|*\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer\"><strong>Danny Boyle\u2019s <em>28 Years Later<\/em><\/strong><\/a><em> <\/em>the other day<em>. <\/em>This intense, gory, nudity-laden flick was also one of a surprisingly heartwarming journey for a young boy, Spike, who doesn\u2019t buy into his community\u2019s view of the world. Everyone around him is fearful, incurious, and readily accepts convenient and clear falsehoods about their lives. Spike seeks hope, even if it requires him to face the violent, cruel, and potentially fatal real world off his island.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t spoil too much in the way of the plot but I will say that the way the story speaks to masculinity \u2014 wading through lost men, toxic lies, and not-so-symbolic alpha males (in the form of one truly terrifying zombie) \u2014 is thoughtful and fresh. In context of the cultural landscape for boys and men today, it\u2019s the kind of exploration we could really use.<\/p>\n<p>Two months ago, Scott Galloway, a professor of marketing at NYU and media tour de force affectionately known on his podcast as Prof G, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?utm_source=newsletter&amp;utm_medium=fatherly&amp;utm_campaign=29f62482dc&amp;v=E28jFoxpVHU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer\"><strong>took to <em>The View<\/em><\/strong><\/a> to talk, as he does so often, about masculinity.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI like the idea of restoring an aspirational vision of masculinity,\u201d he said to a room that seemed, a bit surprisingly, in total agreement. \u201cI don\u2019t think there\u2019s anything wrong with leaning into your femininity or masculinity if it feels natural.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In his view, this vision of masculinity involves three pillars: provider, procreator, and protector.<\/p>\n<div class=\"sWr iGR\">\n<figure class=\"Qf5 CMk\">\n<div class=\"pxF CgC mvL s1076284893\"><noscript><picture><source media=\"(min-width:768px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/image\/2025\/9\/11\/697c90d6\/df-11345.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/image\/2025\/9\/11\/697c90d6\/df-11345.jpg?w=824&amp;h=549&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/image\/2025\/9\/11\/697c90d6\/df-11345.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces, https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/image\/2025\/9\/11\/697c90d6\/df-11345.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2 2x\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/imgix.bustle.com\/uploads\/image\/2025\/9\/11\/697c90d6\/df-11345.jpg?w=414&amp;h=276&amp;fit=crop&amp;crop=faces&amp;dpr=2\" class=\"N4z\"\/><\/picture><\/noscript><\/div><figcaption class=\"rv9 tm3\">\n<div>\n<p>In <em>28 Years Later<\/em>, Spike becomes the provider, chasing the health care his mom needs that his dad ignores.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>When it comes to the provider, \u201cevery man at the outset of his career should take economic responsibility for his household. Sometimes that means getting out of the way\u201d of your more successful partner, he says, and other times it means stepping up. For procreation, he says we should channel \u201cthat fire of desire\u2026 the right ways [to] make you a better man \u2014 kinder, stronger, thinking about how you dress \u2026 showering, for God\u2019s sake.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Finally, he says that in an aspirational vision of masculinity, \u201cyour default operating system is protection.\u201d This is a more gentle and empathetic pillar than it might sound on its face. \u201cA lot of women don\u2019t feel safe on the subway,\u201d he explains, \u201cor they see men walking down the street, they cross the sidewalk.\u201d This is due to men eschewing their duty as protector. And \u201cit\u2019s not just physical,\u201d he continues. \u201cWhen you see a group being demonized, your default setting as a man is you move to protection.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In <em>28 Years Later<\/em>, Spike found himself chasing this view of masculinity headlong: providing the health care his mom needed that his dad would not, protecting her from zombies and himself from indoctrination, not exactly chasing procreation (he\u2019s 12) but rejecting his father\u2019s philandering example. The fact that he lives in a post-apocalyptic landscape in many senses brings clarity to his vision. When there are no worldly comforts, moral clarity arises.<\/p>\n<p>Danny Boyle and Prof G have this in common: They\u2019re both speaking to the broadest possible audiences about things that so many men primarily discuss with, well, other men. With <em>28 Years Later<\/em> raking in over $100 million at the box office already and <em>The View<\/em>\u2019s audience being, well, <em>The View<\/em>\u2019s audience, it\u2019s refreshing to see such discussion spilling out into the public.<\/p>\n<p>Masculinity is making a comeback. It\u2019s time to talk about it.<\/p>\n<aside class=\"fX2 rhF gYu jIS\"\/><\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Will it take a zombie apocalypse to fix masculinity? The thought occurred to me as I sat in a theater taking in Danny Boyle\u2019s 28 Years Later the other day. 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