{"id":295685,"date":"2025-06-15T20:56:42","date_gmt":"2025-06-15T20:56:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/uncategorized\/how-to-choose-a-partner-for-a-relationship-that-will-last\/"},"modified":"2025-06-15T20:56:42","modified_gmt":"2025-06-15T20:56:42","slug":"how-to-choose-a-partner-for-a-relationship-that-will-last","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=295685","title":{"rendered":"How to Choose a Partner for a Relationship that will Last"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"text\">\n<p>If love isn\u2019t left after the lust, you\u2019ll be lost. This is important, so let me say it again.\u00a0If love isn\u2019t left after the lust, you\u2019ll be lost. I call this outside in. Many of us learn this as we get older. Some of us never learn it at all.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>When we are young and start dating, so many of us are attracted to a type. Be it a hair color, body type or a body part, we are drawn to it. For that reason, we tend to see a lot of our relationships play out in the same way, meaning they don\u2019t work. They can, but without a deeper connection, it doesn\u2019t matter how attractive they are, or how good the sex is, you eventually move on to the next. While being physically attracted to someone is not a bad thing, it should not be the only thing.\u00a0<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" src=\"https:\/\/blisspot.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/In-Blog-Pics-October-20-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8786\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blisspot.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/In-Blog-Pics-October-20-1.png 500w, https:\/\/blisspot.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/In-Blog-Pics-October-20-1-450x300.png 450w, https:\/\/blisspot.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/In-Blog-Pics-October-20-1-495x330.png 495w, https:\/\/blisspot.com\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/In-Blog-Pics-October-20-1-300x200.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>The truth is you will probably always be attracted to other people. You can be in a long-term relationship and still be attracted to other people. I see this in my practice all the time. A couple will come in because someone \u201cliked\u201d a picture of a beautiful woman or man on social media, and all of the sudden there is a problem in the relationship. Seems ridiculous to me, but it happens all the time. Just because you\u2019re attracted to someone, doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re going to sleep with them, nor does it mean you want to.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Outside in will get you a date, Inside out will get you a life partner. In other words, you will probably be attracted to many people in your life. But you will only truly connect with a few. There is a great line from a movie that I saw year ago that said \u201cYou don\u2019t marry the person you can be with. You marry the person that you can\u2019t be without.\u201d I personally have dated a lot of beautiful women. Even lived with a handful of them. I married however, the woman that I cannot live without. Not only is she gorgeous, but her beauty pales in comparison to her intellect and energy. Prior to my wife, the longest relationship I was in was just shy of 5 years. Because I went inside out, I\u2019ve been with my wife going on 20 years.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing wrong with having a type. And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to other people. But you\u2019ll never find your soul mate if you are entertaining your playmate. Outside in. Because you\u2019re ready for a lifelong commitment.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\t\t<!-- END .ss-inline-share-wrapper --><\/p><\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If love isn\u2019t left after the lust, you\u2019ll be lost. This is important, so let me say it again.\u00a0If love isn\u2019t left after the lust, you\u2019ll be lost. I call this outside in. Many of us learn this as we get older. Some of us never learn it at all.\u00a0 When we are young and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":295686,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[3036,4327,17663],"dealstore":[],"offerexpiration":[],"class_list":["post-295685","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-choose","tag-partner","tag-relationship"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How to Choose a Partner for a Relationship that will Last - Som2ny Network<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=295685\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"How to Choose a Partner for a Relationship that will Last - Som2ny Network\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"If love isn\u2019t left after the lust, you\u2019ll be lost. 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