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I was recently hanging out one evening with some friends, at six feet of distance, outside, at a bonfire. I started to engage in a conversation with an acquaintance who is a firefighter. He knew of the advocacy work that I do around mental health. We hadn\u2019t spoken in quite some time and I could tell he was a bit \u201con guard\u201d for what he could see was going to be a mental health check-in that I often get into when I see him.<\/p>\n

This was the first time having this conversation with him since the COVID pandemic began. When I mentioned that it must be tough being a firefighter and seeing so much death, his response was, \u201cSure I\u2019ve seen a great deal of death, pictures in my mind I\u2019ll never get out of my head, but others have it worse\u201d. <\/p>\n

Why do so many people diminish their own pain and suffering by thinking and\/or declaring that \u201cothers have it worse\u201d? Sure, others may have it worse. In fact, you could think of the worst case scenario and somebody\u2019s<\/em> more than likely got it even worse than that person. That doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t have your own challenges with which to address. This isn\u2019t about comparing who has it worse. It\u2019s about maintaining one\u2019s own mental health.<\/p>\n

It seems to me that by stating that \u201cothers have it worse\u201d, one can avoid the responsibility of acknowledging and taking ownership for their own difficulties or struggles. After all, to admit that things are challenging would mean that you\u2019d have to address them. And to address them takes time and effort. But if taking that time and effort to work on your own mental health would allow you to once again \u201cfeel\u201d, to get out of the depths of depression, or to finally understand how to handle your past traumas so that you weren\u2019t always in the \u201cfight or flight\u201d mode\u2026wouldn\u2019t it be worth it?<\/p>\n

Thank you for taking the time to read my post. As with all of my posts, questions and comments are welcomed and encouraged.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n

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