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The wonderful truth about friendship is that it\u2019s totally voluntary, and a relationship that is best defined by giving more than you recieve. Of course, all relationships should be like that for the most part (with the exception of caregiving or parenthood), but with friendship, the idea is to make the other person happy and to really invest yourself into them, the only obligation of that being your goodwill and connection to them. It\u2019s lovely.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, this does also mean we need to put our money where our mouth is from time to time, and really help a cherished friend if they\u2019re struggling. That might involve letting them stay at our place if they need help, or perhaps be a close pillar of support if they\u2019re struggling, such as if they lose a loved one.<\/span><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re going through a major life change, it\u2019s important to offer help and be there, but not to impose your assistance on them unless they do want it. With that in mind, let\u2019s consider how to best do that:<\/span><\/p>\n

Offer Life Conveniences & Daily Errands<\/b><\/h3>\n

You don\u2019t always have to do something huge to be a great friend. Even small things like making sure the bins are taken out or grabbing their food shop for the week can help more than you\u2019d think. You may help drive them to the appointment to pick up their <\/span>bluetooth hearing aids<\/span><\/a> or help them adjust to conversation while wearing them.<\/span><\/p>\n

People won\u2019t always ask for help outright even if they\u2019re struggling, and if they\u2019ve always been the reliable one, they might not feel comfortable saying they\u2019re not coping, but if you offer to handle a few errands without making a big deal out of it, they\u2019re more likely to accept. <\/span>It keeps things steady<\/span><\/a> without putting pressure on them to suddenly explain everything or get emotional when they\u2019re just trying to get through the day. Friendship is often found in the tiny moments like this.<\/span><\/p>\n

Offer Emotional Support & Let Them Vent<\/b><\/h3>\n

You can tell when someone just needs to say things out loud, not to get advice, not to hear a solution, but just to know someone\u2019s listening. Sitting with them, offering a cup of tea or just staying quiet until they feel like <\/span>talking is sometimes all it takes<\/span><\/a>. You don\u2019t have to know what to say, you just have to be there. It can be especially important in cases of grief or depression in older adults, where life feels very different now and they\u2019re adjusting to that slow emotional reality.<\/span><\/p>\n

Check Up On Them & Care<\/b><\/h3>\n

Not every catch-up needs to be deep or heavy of course, so just drop them a message now and then, pop round if they\u2019re up for it, remind them that they matter to someone. Even if they don\u2019t reply right away, they\u2019ll feel the support. Letting someone know you\u2019re around without asking anything from them is one of the best things you can offer.<\/span><\/p>\n

With this advice, you\u2019ll be sure to assist a cherished friend in the best way, even during a pretty major life change.<\/span><\/p>\n

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