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So today’s post isn’t going to be like my usual blog posts on here. I won’t be sharing an easy to make recipe or any cooking or baking tips. Today, I am going to take a moment to get a little personal with you all- something that I don’t do all that often on here.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you follow me on Instagram<\/a>, then you may have already seen my post in July<\/a> about my then boyfriend’s impending need for a kidney donor. Colin has been battling kidney disease since he was diagnosed with a rare auto-immune disorder in his mid-twenties.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

His doctors were not able to identify what was wrong with him in those first few weeks of his illness. In the meantime, the disorder wreaked irreversible damage to his kidneys during the weeks that elapsed between when he was first admitted to the hospital and then finally diagnosed with Henoch Schonlein Purpura<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n


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He recovered from his illness, but the damage had already been done as far as his kidneys were concerned. He was told at some point in his life- maybe 20 years or so down the line- that he would one day possibly need dialysis and then eventually a kidney transplant. Through meds and a few dietary changes, he was able to maintain a manageable percentage of kidney function until about 2 months ago.<\/span><\/p>\n

Two months ago, everything changed. His kidney function dropped below 15%, and his nephrologist decided that it was time for us to start considering at-home dialysis.<\/span><\/p>\n

Colin started at-home dialysis over a month ago. While we weren’t expecting the process to be easy, we didn’t exactly anticipate how taxing it would be either. From the sleepless nights to the possible exposure scares to the numerous ER visits to the fluctuations in his blood pressure from being scary high to tanking to the point that he was passing out on a sidewalk a few weekends ago, dialysis- while a temporary fix for end stage renal disease- is hard on both the patient & their loved ones.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Not to mention the fact that the risks associated with dialysis are almost as great as the benefits that come with it. Most dialysis patients can only survive for 5-10 years if a donor kidney doesn’t become available.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fortunately, my now fiance (in case you missed the news on my Instagram, Colin proposed to me last month<\/a>!) won’t have to wait that long for a new kidney. We found out about a month ago, after weeks of talking to various members of the\u00a0<\/span>kidney transplant program at UPMC in Pittsburgh<\/span>\u00a0and a two-day evaluation process that not only am I medically approved to be a kidney donor, but that I am also a blood & tissue match for Colin!<\/span><\/p>\n

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The chances of a non-relative loved one or friend being an organ match for a person in end-stage renal disease is next to minuscule. To put it in perspective, siblings only have a 25% chance of being a blood & tissue match for each other<\/a>. To say that the universe was working some kind of cosmic magic when it placed Colin and I in each other’s paths about 2 1\/2 years ago just might be an understatement.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Although I have always had myself listed as an organ donor on my driver’s license in case the unthinkable would ever happen, I never once dreamed that I would one day become a living organ donor. And now before the end of this month, I will become just that to the man that I love and hope to spend decades with- a living kidney donor<\/i>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The benefits of receiving a kidney from a living donor<\/a> versus a deceased donor are many:<\/span><\/p>\n