{"id":126860,"date":"2025-03-11T18:43:21","date_gmt":"2025-03-11T18:43:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peraltafinancing.com\/alcohol\/what-its-like-to-be-a-pregnant-bartender\/"},"modified":"2025-03-11T18:43:21","modified_gmt":"2025-03-11T18:43:21","slug":"what-its-like-to-be-a-pregnant-bartender","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fivemor.com\/?p=126860","title":{"rendered":"What It\u2019s Like To Be a Pregnant Bartender"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"first-para-dropcap\">In 2023, shortly after <a href=\"https:\/\/imbibemagazine.com\/qa-lauren-lp-paylor-obrien-of-netflixs-drink-masters\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">LP O\u2019Brien<\/a> announced she was pregnant, a client backed out of a contract.\u00a0\u201cThey emailed me to say, \u2018We just want to be mindful of your situation. So we\u2019re going to go in another direction,\u2019\u201d says the entrepreneur and CEO of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lpdrinks.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">LP Drinks Co.<\/a> They had signed an agreement for her to work at an upcoming festival following her first-place finish in <em>Drink Masters<\/em>, Netflix\u2019s reality TV bartender competition. \u201cIt obviously was illegal, but, for my sanity, I needed to focus on what was in front of me. My priority at the time had to be taking care of myself and my soon-to-be-born child.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While O\u2019Brien\u2019s circumstances were unique, this type of situation is not uncommon, drinks professionals say. Despite <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dol.gov\/agencies\/wb\/pregnancy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">federal protections<\/a>, the lived experiences of pregnant bartenders include everything from decreased hours to reneged partnerships to untenable physical expectations. Pregnant and postpartum employees describe changing jobs in order to secure healthcare, taking on side gigs during partially compensated parental leaves, and answering texts about shift schedules from hospital beds upon giving birth.<\/p>\n<p>When some bartenders learn they\u2019re pregnant, they know they have to find a new job immediately. That\u2019s how Caer Maiko Ferguson felt. She figured a small, neighborhood spot with shorter shifts, devoted regulars, and a conscientious owner could provide more flexibility and support during her pregnancy and postpartum period than the high-end cocktail bar in downtown Austin, Texas, where she\u2019d been knocking out 12- to 14-hour shifts. \u201cIt was an intentional choice,\u201d she says. \u201cA lot of planning had gone into finding a place where I could comfortably exist.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure data-wp-context=\"{\" uploadedsrc=\"\" size-large=\"\" image:=\"\" lp=\"\" o=\"\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/image\" class=\"wp-block-image size-large wp-lightbox-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"804\" height=\"1024\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-async--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-on-async--load=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-async-window--resize=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-id=\"89531\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCAxNTcwIDIwMDAiIHdpZHRoPSIxNTcwIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjIwMDAiIGRhdGEtdT0iaHR0cHMlM0ElMkYlMkZpbWJpYmVtYWdhemluZS5jb20lMkZ3cC1jb250ZW50JTJGdXBsb2FkcyUyRjIwMjUlMkYwMyUyRkxQT0JyaWVuLWNyZHQtY291cnRlc3lvZkxQT0JyaWVuLmpwZyIgZGF0YS13PSIxNTcwIiBkYXRhLWg9IjIwMDAiIGRhdGEtYmlwPSIiPjwvc3ZnPg==\" data-spai=\"1\" alt=\"LP O'Brien\" class=\"wp-image-89531\" srcset=\" \" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 804px) 100vw, 804px\"\/><button class=\"lightbox-trigger\" type=\"button\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-label=\"Enlarge image: LP O'Brien\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.initTriggerButton\" data-wp-on-async--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-style--right=\"context.imageButtonRight\" data-wp-style--top=\"context.imageButtonTop\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"12\" height=\"12\" fill=\"none\" viewbox=\"0 0 12 12\"><path fill=\"#fff\" d=\"M2 0a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v2h1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 1 .5-.5h2V0H2Zm2 10.5H2a.5.5 0 0 1-.5-.5V8H0v2a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v-1.5ZM8 12v-1.5h2a.5.5 0 0 0 .5-.5V8H12v2a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H8Zm2-12a2 2 0 0 1 2 2v2h-1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 0-.5-.5H8V0h2Z\"\/><\/svg><\/button><\/figure>\n<figure data-wp-context=\"{\" uploadedsrc=\"\" size-large=\"\" image:=\"\" caer=\"\" maiko=\"\" ferguson=\"\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/image\" class=\"wp-block-image size-large wp-lightbox-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"759\" height=\"1024\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-async--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-on-async--load=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-async-window--resize=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-id=\"89530\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCAxNDgzIDIwMDAiIHdpZHRoPSIxNDgzIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjIwMDAiIGRhdGEtdT0iaHR0cHMlM0ElMkYlMkZpbWJpYmVtYWdhemluZS5jb20lMkZ3cC1jb250ZW50JTJGdXBsb2FkcyUyRjIwMjUlMkYwMyUyRkNhZXItTWFpa28tRmVyZ3Vzb24tY3JkdC1jb3VydGVzeS1DYWVyLU1haWtvLUZlcmd1c29uLmpwZyIgZGF0YS13PSIxNDgzIiBkYXRhLWg9IjIwMDAiIGRhdGEtYmlwPSIiPjwvc3ZnPg==\" data-spai=\"1\" alt=\"Caer Maiko Ferguson\" class=\"wp-image-89530\" srcset=\" \" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 759px) 100vw, 759px\"\/><button class=\"lightbox-trigger\" type=\"button\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-label=\"Enlarge image: Caer Maiko Ferguson\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.initTriggerButton\" data-wp-on-async--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-style--right=\"context.imageButtonRight\" data-wp-style--top=\"context.imageButtonTop\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"12\" height=\"12\" fill=\"none\" viewbox=\"0 0 12 12\"><path fill=\"#fff\" d=\"M2 0a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v2h1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 1 .5-.5h2V0H2Zm2 10.5H2a.5.5 0 0 1-.5-.5V8H0v2a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v-1.5ZM8 12v-1.5h2a.5.5 0 0 0 .5-.5V8H12v2a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H8Zm2-12a2 2 0 0 1 2 2v2h-1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 0-.5-.5H8V0h2Z\"\/><\/svg><\/button><\/figure><figcaption class=\"blocks-gallery-caption wp-element-caption\">LP O\u2019Brien (left) and Caer Maiko Ferguson (right).<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>That\u2019s not to say bartending until her 38th week of pregnancy was easy. She continuously hired and retrained staff to cover her leave and had to adapt their and her own schedules as circumstances changed. Even among a supportive team, the physicalities of her pregnancy and postpartum period presented challenges. She remembers how the smell of mezcal exacerbated her first- and second-trimester nausea and pumping breast milk in a shared bathroom or her car.\u00a0\u201cYou couldn\u2019t always leave the floor to go to the bathroom to throw up,\u201d she says. \u201cYou\u2019d be talking to someone, and telling yourself, \u2018Stay calm, you can\u2019t be nauseous right now,\u2019\u201d she remembers. \u201cKeeping that decorum is really hard.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cI once had to go to the ER during a weekend night shift.\u201d \u2014Linda Nivar<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Linda Nivar, a New York City bar manager and hospitality consultant, echoes these sentiments. \u201cYou hear about the nausea and the tiredness. But there are other symptoms, like sciatica and lightning crotch,\u201d she says of the stabbing pelvic pains that typically occur during third trimesters, when fetuses are larger. \u201cI once had to go to the ER during a weekend night shift.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>During her first pregnancy, Nivar was the only manager at a tropical Manhattan bar. She worked until the last possible day before delivering so she could afford to take a partially compensated parental leave. Out-of-pocket monthly insurance fees for her growing family were $900. So she started working remotely for the bar almost immediately after giving birth.\u00a0\u201cI had my daughter on a Thursday. And I put in the Baldor order that weekend,\u201d she says, referring to the specialty food distributor that supplies many bars and restaurants. \u201cThe day I gave birth, I got a text message from one of my servers saying, \u2018I don\u2019t think I can make it to my shift.\u2019\u201d Nivar has since left her full-time manager position to serve as a consultant.<\/p>\n<p>Amanda Victoria, founder and CEO of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.siponey.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Siponey Spritz Co.<\/a>, also reimagined her role when she started her family. When a drinks company canceled her public-facing consultancy upon learning she was pregnant\u2014\u201ccoincidentally, right around the time I started showing,\u201d she says\u2014she decided to become an entrepreneur. \u201cMy daughter is the best thing that ever happened to me and my career because she motivated me to create my own path and is my whole world,\u201d Victoria says.\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure data-wp-context=\"{\" uploadedsrc=\"\" size-large=\"\" image:=\"\" linda=\"\" nivar=\"\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/image\" class=\"wp-block-image size-large wp-lightbox-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"771\" height=\"1024\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-async--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-on-async--load=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-async-window--resize=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-id=\"89529\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCAxMDkwIDE0NDgiIHdpZHRoPSIxMDkwIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjE0NDgiIGRhdGEtdT0iaHR0cHMlM0ElMkYlMkZpbWJpYmVtYWdhemluZS5jb20lMkZ3cC1jb250ZW50JTJGdXBsb2FkcyUyRjIwMjUlMkYwMyUyRmxpbmRhLW5pdmFyLWNyZHQtY3RzeS1saW5kYS1uaXZhci5qcGciIGRhdGEtdz0iMTA5MCIgZGF0YS1oPSIxNDQ4IiBkYXRhLWJpcD0iIj48L3N2Zz4=\" data-spai=\"1\" alt=\"Linda Nivar\" class=\"wp-image-89529\" srcset=\" \" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 771px) 100vw, 771px\"\/><button class=\"lightbox-trigger\" type=\"button\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-label=\"Enlarge image: Linda Nivar\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.initTriggerButton\" data-wp-on-async--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-style--right=\"context.imageButtonRight\" data-wp-style--top=\"context.imageButtonTop\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"12\" height=\"12\" fill=\"none\" viewbox=\"0 0 12 12\"><path fill=\"#fff\" d=\"M2 0a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v2h1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 1 .5-.5h2V0H2Zm2 10.5H2a.5.5 0 0 1-.5-.5V8H0v2a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v-1.5ZM8 12v-1.5h2a.5.5 0 0 0 .5-.5V8H12v2a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H8Zm2-12a2 2 0 0 1 2 2v2h-1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 0-.5-.5H8V0h2Z\"\/><\/svg><\/button><\/figure>\n<figure data-wp-context=\"{\" uploadedsrc=\"\" size-large=\"\" image=\"\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/image\" class=\"wp-block-image size-large wp-lightbox-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"716\" height=\"1024\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-async--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-on-async--load=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-async-window--resize=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-id=\"89561\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCAxMzk4IDIwMDAiIHdpZHRoPSIxMzk4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjIwMDAiIGRhdGEtdT0iaHR0cHMlM0ElMkYlMkZpbWJpYmVtYWdhemluZS5jb20lMkZ3cC1jb250ZW50JTJGdXBsb2FkcyUyRjIwMjUlMkYwMyUyRmFtYW5kYS12aWN0b3JpYS1jcmR0LWNvdXJ0ZXN5LWFtYW5kYS12aWN0b3JpYS0xLmpwZyIgZGF0YS13PSIxMzk4IiBkYXRhLWg9IjIwMDAiIGRhdGEtYmlwPSIiPjwvc3ZnPg==\" data-spai=\"1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-89561\" srcset=\" \" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 716px) 100vw, 716px\"\/><button class=\"lightbox-trigger\" type=\"button\" aria-haspopup=\"dialog\" aria-label=\"Enlarge image\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.initTriggerButton\" data-wp-on-async--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-style--right=\"context.imageButtonRight\" data-wp-style--top=\"context.imageButtonTop\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"12\" height=\"12\" fill=\"none\" viewbox=\"0 0 12 12\"><path fill=\"#fff\" d=\"M2 0a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v2h1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 1 .5-.5h2V0H2Zm2 10.5H2a.5.5 0 0 1-.5-.5V8H0v2a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v-1.5ZM8 12v-1.5h2a.5.5 0 0 0 .5-.5V8H12v2a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H8Zm2-12a2 2 0 0 1 2 2v2h-1.5V2a.5.5 0 0 0-.5-.5H8V0h2Z\"\/><\/svg><\/button><\/figure><figcaption class=\"blocks-gallery-caption wp-element-caption\">Linda Nivar (left) with her family. | Siponey\u2019s Amanda Victoria with her daughter.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>While it\u2019s difficult to name an industry that seamlessly meets the needs of pregnant and postpartum employees, hospitality has particularly unique obstacles. By nature, wages for non-salaried workers are insecure, shifting from night to night and week to week. In bars and restaurants, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bls.gov\/iag\/tgs\/iag70.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">healthcare benefits and paid leave are rare<\/a>. Duties are physically demanding, requiring standing for hours and stacking or lifting heavy glasses and boxes. And, as anyone who\u2019s ever worked service on a weekend can attest, bathroom breaks are often few and far between.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cI was really worried about what all these men would think if I came over to their table with a big belly and a bottle of wine.\u201d \u2014Victoria James<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Guest-facing hospitality workers contend with an array of interpersonal nuances, too. Bars and restaurants are inherently social places where typical boundaries and inhibitions tend to dissipate. \u201cPeople go to restaurants with that mindset,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/imbibemagazine.com\/drink-of-the-week-chateau-dauvernier-neuchatel-blanc\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Victoria James<\/a>, a partner at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gracioushm.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Gracious Hospitality Management<\/a> in New York City. \u201cThey want you to be a part of the party.\u201d Pregnancies can complicate already fraught social terrain. \u201cWhen I was pregnant with my first, I was very self-conscious about it. I had never seen a pregnant sommelier,\u201d James remembers. \u201cI was really worried about what all these men would think if I came over to their table with a big belly and a bottle of wine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Taboos about visibly pregnant people working in spaces where alcohol is served persist. In 2023, a bar manager in Austin fired a pregnant bartender because he was \u201cgenuinely scared something bad\u201d would happen to her, and her condition had become \u201ca liability,\u201d according to <a href=\"https:\/\/s3.documentcloud.org\/documents\/23815499\/eeoc-v-corner-bar.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">the suit she filed<\/a> soon thereafter. \u201cCulture is always top-down,\u201d says Maiko Ferguson. \u201cThat\u2019s one of the reasons why women owning bars is so important.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Althea Codamon remembers receiving \u201cjudgmental looks\u201d from some guests while she tended bar at New York City\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.unionsquarecafe.com\/\">Union Square Cafe<\/a> until the 38th week of her pregnancy. \u201cThen they\u2019d taste their drink and be like, \u2018Okay, that\u2019s the best Martini I ever had,\u2019\u201d she says. \u201cDon\u2019t judge a bartender by the belly.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Advocates would argue that bars and restaurants could also adopt policies to support and retain their teams, particularly in an industry with such high turnover. According to one analysis, from January-April 2024, nearly 3 million people left their hospitality and leisure jobs, a figure <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hrdive.com\/news\/industries-with-highest-quit-rates\/721216\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">204 percent higher than the national quit rate<\/a>. This is expensive for employers. Researchers suggest it costs companies anywhere from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shrm.org\/topics-tools\/news\/talent-acquisition\/real-costs-recruitment\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">$4,700<\/a> to <a href=\"https:\/\/ecommons.cornell.edu\/server\/api\/core\/bitstreams\/b556c92c-4579-4495-b5a3-5c2e1e9e13c7\/content\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">$5,864 per person<\/a> to hire and retrain a new employee.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/imbibemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Althea.pumping.USC-crdt-AltheaCodamon.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"708\" height=\"1024\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCAxMzgyIDIwMDAiIHdpZHRoPSIxMzgyIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjIwMDAiIGRhdGEtdT0iaHR0cHMlM0ElMkYlMkZpbWJpYmVtYWdhemluZS5jb20lMkZ3cC1jb250ZW50JTJGdXBsb2FkcyUyRjIwMjUlMkYwMyUyRkFsdGhlYS5wdW1waW5nLlVTQy1jcmR0LUFsdGhlYUNvZGFtb24uanBnIiBkYXRhLXc9IjEzODIiIGRhdGEtaD0iMjAwMCIgZGF0YS1iaXA9IiI+PC9zdmc+\" data-spai=\"1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-89573\" style=\"width:326px;height:auto\" srcset=\" \" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 708px) 100vw, 708px\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Althea Codamon breast pumping in the Union Square Cafe.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Like Maiko Ferguson, Codamon changed jobs because she thought Union Square Cafe would be a better place to work while pregnant\u2014\u201cuntil my stomach was knocking off speed pourers and the cash register would not open,\u201d she says, laughing.\u00a0The restaurant\u2019s parent company offered health insurance and parental leave. And her managers asked if 12 weeks would be a long enough parental leave. The company repeatedly stressed that her position would be available whenever she returned and were flexible about rescheduling shifts. Her postpartum needs, like whether pumping in the locker room or bathroom would provide enough privacy, were also addressed.\u00a0\u201cThey were very curious and accommodating,\u201d she says. \u201cThey allowed me to balance being pregnant and being a mom, and my body changing while doing such a physically taxing job.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While Union Square Cafe is part of a corporation with more resources than any mom-and-pop operation, aspects of Codamon\u2019s experience could potentially scale for hospitality businesses of all sizes.\u00a0\u201cPeople are going to continue to get pregnant. You might as well find a way to make it work,\u201d says O\u2019Brien. Now expecting her second child, she uses her platform to advocate for pregnant and postpartum workers. \u201cHow do we navigate this in a way that we\u2019re opening doors for other people?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><script>!function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s){if(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function(){n.callMethod?n.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)};if(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;n.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';n.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;t.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];s.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window,document,'script','https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js');fbq('init','1124958150872824');fbq('track','PageView')<\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In 2023, shortly after LP O\u2019Brien announced she was pregnant, a client backed out of a contract.\u00a0\u201cThey emailed me to say, \u2018We just want to be mindful of your situation. 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