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Money is such a complicated subject because there are so many emotions around it. Most of the decisions we make concerning it are personal, and therefore affect us in a personal way. The way we view money is influenced by our upbringing, culture, family, friends, and relationships.<\/p>\n

Our past directly relates to our money mindset and our ability to conceive what money can and cannot do.<\/p>\n

For most of my life, I grew up thinking that money wasn\u2019t very special. I didn\u2019t go as far to say it was the root of all evil, but I did adopt several money mindsets<\/a> that I\u2019m dealing with today.<\/p>\n

For one, I\u2019ve grown accustomed to the starving artist mindset<\/strong> \u2014 that any sort of creative work will leave you broke and just barely getting by. Now that I\u2019ve seen that existence for myself, I wonder, was it me, or did I actually set myself up for that life?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve also been uncomfortable around the idea of wealth. In my mind it equates to greed, and privilege. To believe in wealth feels like a rejection of working class roots, and who wants to reject where they came from?<\/p>\n

Aside from those money mindsets, I\u2019m also dealing with massive student loan debt that simultaneously tells me I did the right thing by educating myself, but also the wrong thing because I chose something so unprofitable.<\/p>\n

I mention these things because we all have a relationship with money, whether we want to believe it or not. For some people, that relationship is misanthropic, while others it is mere nonchalance. Many of us\u00a0experience a relationship with money surrounded by fear, anxiety, greed, or power.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019re all overcoming our own money issues of how to deal with it, how to manage it, how to make more of it, and how to reconcile our money beliefs while having\u00a0a happy relationship with this necessary form of currency.<\/p>\n

So, take a moment\u00a0\u2014 what is your relationship with money? Do you see it as a necessary evil? Or a form of power? Do you see it as a tool for good or a source of misery?<\/p>\n

Whatever your relationship with money is now, it\u2019s important to come to terms with your beliefs and start to forge positive thoughts surrounding money. Here is why your relationship with money is important to your financial success:<\/p>\n

Your Relationship with Money Affects Spending <\/b><\/h2>\n

If you have a negative relationship with money, you\u2019re likely to see it as something frivolous or unimportant. In that regard, it\u2019s easier to spend money on things that don\u2019t matter, just because you can.<\/p>\n

Having a bad relationship with money can lead to reckless spending<\/a>, and never quite knowing where your money goes. Understanding that money is necessary and even empowering can completely shift how you spend money.<\/p>\n

You can start viewing money as a tool for freedom, rather than something that controls you!<\/p>\n

Your Relationship with Money Affects Earning Power<\/h2>\n

When I started to pursue a life of creativity, I already made my mind up that I would never make a lot of money. This is what everyone told me would happened, so that\u2019s what I expected \u2014 in turn, that\u2019s what I got. I wonder now if I actually had the guts to think about money as empowering and actually think that creativity could turn into money making potential<\/a>, where I would be today.<\/p>\n

But I can\u2019t go back, so going forward I\u2019m convinced I can do better than my past<\/strong>. I\u2019m rewriting the stories I\u2019ve heard from friends and family, and even my own experiences. I\u2019m open to possibilities and saying that yes, I can and will earn more.<\/p>\n

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Half the battle is actually convincing yourself you will, and the other half is working hard enough and having the guts to make it happen.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

If you have a negative relationship with money, it\u2019s hard to increase your earning power. By having a positive relationship with money, you are opening up more possibilities.<\/p>\n

Your Relationship with Money Affects Your Happiness<\/h2>\n

While I don\u2019t think that that money buys happiness, I do think it affects our happiness. If you don\u2019t care about money and spend recklessly, it\u2019s hard to be happy when you\u2019re stressed out about paying bills or dealing with emergencies. Conversely, if you focus too much on money, it can seem like it never gets you what you really want.<\/p>\n

The best things in life are free but money can be a helpful tool in reaching your goals, providing security for your family, and creating a buffer for emergencies.<\/p>\n

So, if you have a less than stellar relationship with money, what should you do?<\/p>\n