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To the outside world, Isabel is a thriving professional in her early thirties. But each morning, she wakes up with a racing heart and an overwhelming sense of dread. Before heading off to work, she is gripped by a paralyzing panic. The fear has never truly faded. It lingers, an invisible weight pressing down on her chest.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve felt this way since I was eleven,\u201d Isabel told me during one of our counseling sessions. \u201cThe day my mom told me, \u2018If I\u2019m not here when you come back from school, don\u2019t be scared. I didn\u2019t abandon you. I was deported.\u2019 \u201d\u00a0(Note: The name and other identifiable details of this patient have been changed to protect their privacy.)<\/em><\/p>\n

That moment shattered her childhood. Every morning, she left for school burdened by uncertainty, not knowing if she would return to an empty home. The fear burrowed into her psyche, manifesting as debilitating anxiety that followed her into adulthood.<\/p>\n

Isabel\u2019s story is not unique. As a psychotherapist, I have worked with many adults\u2014particularly from Latin American backgrounds\u2014whose anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress stem from childhood experiences of immigration enforcement. They grew up in constant fear that their parents might be taken from them.\u00a0<\/p>\n

President Donald Trump has stoked that fear with his vow<\/a> to carry out \u201cthe largest deportation operation in American history.\u201d His plan, reminiscent of what was called \u201cOperation Wetback\u201d in the 1950s, would tear families apart, inflicting unimaginable psychological damage on the children left behind.<\/p>\n

Mass deportation is framed as law and order, yet rarely do we discuss its profound human toll\u2014not just on those deported, but on the\u00a0children and communities they leave behind. Family separation is not a momentary crisis; it is a trauma that lingers for generations.<\/p>\n

Neuroscience confirms<\/a> that childhood trauma has lasting consequences. When children live in prolonged fear, their developing brains adapt for survival. They learn to anticipate danger, distrust stability, and brace for loss. Even when the immediate threat is gone, the scars remain. Many struggle with chronic anxiety and depression. Others develop stress-related health issues that impact them for life.<\/p>\n

Undocumented immigrants are often dehumanized, criminalized, and reduced to statistics. We rarely acknowledge them for who they truly are: parents seeking safety, families striving for a better future, individuals fleeing violence and economic devastation.\u00a0<\/p>\n

To those who support mass deportation, I ask, what happens to the children left behind? Are we prepared to accept the generational trauma that follows? Do we truly believe that punishing parents\u2014who came here out of desperation\u2014serves justice?<\/p>\n

Rather than mass deportations, we need a compassionate immigration strategy. A comprehensive approach must include a pathway to legalization for long-term undocumented immigrants, granting permanent status for \u201cDreamers,\u201d and providing work-based legalization options. Humane and efficient asylum processing is essential, requiring more immigration judges, structured refugee resettlement programs, and legal entry pathways.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Prioritizing family unity is crucial to ending family separations and ensuring protections for mixed-status families. Expanding work visas to align with labor market demands, particularly for agricultural and essential workers, would support economic stability. Addressing the root causes of migration through efforts to stabilize violence-stricken regions and foster trade partnerships is vital.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Immigration enforcement should be reformed to prevent mass deportations and ensure humane treatment of detainees. And bipartisan immigration reform must modernize outdated policies by involving local governments, businesses, and nonprofits in immigrant integration.<\/p>\n

The current Administration is enacting none of these measures. The costs of this cruelty\u2014psychological, economic, and social\u2014will be devastating.<\/p>\n

If we claim to value family, if we believe in the sanctity of the home, then we must reject policies that tear families apart and advocate for humane reforms that protect children from lifelong harm.<\/p>\n

For Isabel, the panic still comes every morning. But what if the next generation didn\u2019t have to grow up with this fear? What if, instead of perpetuating trauma, we chose compassion, dignity, and the right for all families to build a future without fear?\u00a0<\/p>\n

The wounds of mass deportation are not just personal tragedies; they are national failings. And unless we change course, they will continue to shape generations to come.<\/p>\n

This column was produced for <\/em>Progressive Perspectives<\/em><\/a>, a project of The Progressive magazine, and distributed by Tribune News Service.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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